I was shopping in BRU today with dd and overheard the following conversation that made me want to bitch-slap this lady:
Little boy (probly grandson): Points to "heartbeat bear" and says "HEY, let's get that for the baby to help it sleep".
Grandma: No, babies need to sleep by themselves and go to sleep without help. (ME:
Boy: "Why, they're just little?"
Grandma: "So we don't have to deal with them all the time".
ME: Violently restraining myself from saying something I would regret later.
I post on other boards, but I know that this is the only place I could vent these feelings without condemnation and be perfectly understood. How utterly contemptible that this woman would teach this innocent little boy something so unnatural and false and cruel about tiny babies; I truly hope someone else more compassionate and EDUCATED comes along at some point and teaches this little guy the gentle way to parent babies. I mean, I understand you cannot always instantly get the baby when it cries, and that it is nice that if they get older, they go to sleep on their own, as some do, but it is criminal and harmful to expect a newborn to fall asleep all on its little lonesome. Ugggh!!
Now I feel much better