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#1 of 126 Old 02-11-2008, 03:14 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Welcome to Live With a Babe !
Isn't it absolutely amazing!

I'm hoping we can keep our DDC alive and thriving through the transition from DDC to LWB, and beyond !

How are everyone's little ones doing?

Faith, now that she's off of the oxygen, is an eating and sleeping machine. She has been gaining weight wonderfully ~ 8lbs 8oz at birth and over 10lbs at our midwife visit on Friday. She's much more mellow than her big sister was at this age, which is a real help, since the 2.5 yr old is definitely vying for attention. Faith is happy to oblige. She loves our mamababy sling and she loves her swing. And she is doing great through the night...meaning I'm not really having to gain full consciousness to get her latched on however many times a night...which is working out beautifully.

I'm working on a one true media montage...inspired by zahirakids...and will post once it's all together.

Here's hoping that we can gather our entire DDC over here...
And here's the link back to our DDC

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Thanks for starting this river! Shana is doing awesome and is now weighing in at 11 lbs 10 oz. She is EBF! I love my little chunker!

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Hi, all!

Rainee is up to 9 lbs at 7 weeks old. She's gaining 1/2 lb/week. She seems crazy big to me because she is gaining so fast! Breastmilk only, too!

We've finally figured out CDing, and are getting into a bit of a routine, mostly centered around Big Sister's activities. I find if you lower your expectations of what you are going to get done you're much happier in the end.

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are getting into a bit of a routine, mostly centered around Big Sister's activities. I find if you lower your expectations of what you are going to get done you're much happier in the end.
I've been trying to figure this out. Dd#2 just turned 4 wks and I've been laying really low up until now. I am realizing that it's time to get back to the land of the living and resume more housekeeping, etc. Dd#1 (also 2.5 y.o.) still spends some days at Grandma's house so I have been alone with dd#2. I'm a little nervous about resuming a routine with both kids full time, although I'm sure it'll be just fine. It's just lack of sleep I'm nervous about because my patience evaporates, and dd#1 reeeeaaaallllly tests my patience (when she isn't being an angel of course).

Isn't it lovely to see the babes growing all chunky? So smushable and lovely. Dd#2 is chunkier than her sister was and I looooove those chubs. Wish I could say it was only breastmilk though. Sigh.

We're still supplementing and I'm pumping and trying her at the breast. She has been latching on more (and better -- hey, it really does hurt less as their mouthes grow! Wow!!!! Yay!!!!!) but sometimes she's still so unpredictable. Oh well, I'll just keep trying for now. Today she gave me a huge goofy grin at the boob. Made me MELT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Hi guys!

We're starting to (perhaps?) come out of toddler-nightmare-land....babe is 3 weeks old now, and yesterday was a HAPPY day!! Today has been really great, too. DS has been a real sweetheart, and pretty lovey with DD and treating me kindly and having fun with me again. Whew! I know it will probably go way down and way up again and again, but it is nice to feel what it is like to be a happy family again!

We're laying low today---after three weeks of laying low because of new baby and sick friends, we caught a cough this weekend. Oh well. It's nothing bad, but enough to not want to pass it around.

Don't know how much DD weighs, but I feel like she is a chunker compared to DS. She SLEEPS, too! I just hope that one lasts...I remember that his sleep wasn't so bad until teething started, so this could all go out the window, but her quality of sleep and how easily she goes to sleep is so much easier than it was with him. I just feel that she is a sleeper where he was/is NOT a sleeper.

The upside of all of these sick friends is that the meals are still coming in! They've really been drawn out, since people didn't want to bring their ick over. This has allowed us to not get sick of the meals that I froze/canned, and have fresher things every few days. I've cooked an actual meal once, but it was of the "put salmon and whole potatoes in oven, steam frozen broccoli" variety, so doesn't really count. "lol I'm starting to worry that DS will forget that cooking takes TIME---we've just been heating things up for weeks now!

We're working on deciding about preschool for next year right now. The school that I love (and can afford!) is 5 half-days per week, which is so much more than I thought I'd ever do with him. I'm really itching to start doing contract work again in the fall, though, so I really want to send him to preschool for SOME period of time. It seems like I should send him to the school that I love, though, rather than just going with the school with the SCHEDULE that I want. The price on this particular school is so good, though, that I suspect that they might be okay with me paying for 5 days and only sending him 3 or 4 days per week. It is still 1/3 cheaper for 5 days than the 3-day program that would be my second choice. It just seems so early to have so much structure and so little flexibility in our lives, though. I really want to try to keep this work relationship that I have going, though, because it will already have been 1.5 years since I quit part-time (long-distance contract work), and the longer I let it go, the more worried I become that they won't take me back. This is just the PERFECT job for having kids in school----I can be here when they get up, get them off to school, come home and have 5 solid hours of work per day, be here when they get home and be around and present in the evenings. It's hard to find a job like that. But I ramble...

I saw someone's post about nursing in a wrap on the other board---I've tried it a few times in a stretchy wrap, and it worked okay. Once was at Trader Joe's, and it wasn't so bad. I had to support her head with my hand, though, so it wasn't really hands-free. But I was able to walk around, at least. I've also managed the ring sling a few times, but it doesn't feel terribly discreet. DS would NEVER nurse in a carrier, so this is all new for me. I'm hoping that this new little one and I can work something out.

Play food has been set up for a snack---I'd better go help "eat" it!!

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All is well here too, we have been very happy to just hang around the house. Nico is still trying to get rid of a cold, so staying home is where we are at! He is really big too- last we checked he was 11lbs6oz, and that was almost 2 weeks ago. He loves to nurse...

He loves the moby wrap, i do too. he has been sleeping less, taking more catnaps during the day, but sleeping great at night. he is much more mellow than dd was. dd seems to be listening to dh and me more. we started a "mommy and me" cuddle with dd at bedtime, dh takes ds into the other room for a while, this seems to be helping.

i am happy with my life right now...things are good, we are planning a trip to the east coast when Nico is 10 weeks old to visit family. that will be an adventure...

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I finished the photo montage. I mainly did it for Faith to have, but I'm excited about it so I'm gonna share with all of you wonderful mamas...who don't mind seeing my breasts. For those that do, you may wish to opt out of checking out the link to...faith's birth. i may not leave it up for too long, due to the intimacy of it, but i wanted to share.

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Hi Mamas....so glad to be here! Life with a babe has been great so far. Owen is now 5wks old and doing well. We had issues with rapid breathing early on but after many oppinions from specialists we are confident that he'll grow out of it. He loves to nurse and is doing much better since we got his tongue clipped several weeks ago. He was up to 9-12 at his 1m visit (born at 6-15) and going strong. He is so mellow and happy and just started cooing and smiling responsively over the weekend. It's amazing!

I am feeling so much better and have been getting out of the house almost daily! Dd is adjusting as well. She'll be 4 in April and loves to lavish attention on ds. Thankfully he is quite tolerant of all the attention I am loving staying home and am working toward getting some contract work and starting my own practice one afternoon a week so I can be home as much as possible (and we can still have a home to be in ).

Despite feeling better, I am still struggling to get organized and the laundry never seems to end! I suppose that's all par for the course though!

OK, baby is up and asking for snack!

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I finished the photo montage. I mainly did it for Faith to have, but I'm excited about it so I'm gonna share with all of you wonderful mamas...who don't mind seeing my breasts. For those that do, you may wish to opt out of checking out the link to...faith's birth. i may not leave it up for too long, due to the intimacy of it, but i wanted to share.
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I'm sitting here moved to tears.....so beautiful.....I love when Faith was born, the joy in your dh and midwives faces is beautiful. I love your other dd in the tub with you. So cute. I LOVE the shot of your Faith still attached to the placenta. VERY VERY COOL. What a beautiful baby. The pic of your two daughters sleeping on you is very moving.

Thanks for sharing.

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we're four weeks tomorrow and we're experiencing our first real problem - thrush.

We're doing GV treatments, and she looks like she got into the koolaid or was chewing on a ballpoint pen. I almost can't take her seriously!

I've been trying to use the ringsling - I must not be doing it right cause it always turns out with her being more squished than looks right...I might try it with her in a vertical position and see if that's less squished. she might last longer that way.

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I'm here.. Matthew is almost 2 wks old ( feb 14th) and doing excellent.. he has a check up on Friday so I am anxious to see what his weight is. He was born at 10lbs 6 oz and we left the hospital at 9lbs 7oz.. but he is a BF champ. The lac consultant that came and saw us before we left said he must of read the manual in utero.. lol. We are still trying to adjust from 2-3 and especially my 2 yr old DS. He has his melt down days like yesterday that made me cry but today he was back to his normal self. I know it's a phase, it's just so different from when he was born and DD was 5.. big difference! But overall we are doing well. DH is off work until April to help out and finish the house that we have been putting off for 2 yrs. Other than that life is good.
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I finished the photo montage. I mainly did it for Faith to have, but I'm excited about it so I'm gonna share with all of you wonderful mamas...who don't mind seeing my breasts. For those that do, you may wish to opt out of checking out the link to...faith's birth. i may not leave it up for too long, due to the intimacy of it, but i wanted to share.
Ahhh! I'm totally crying over here. That was so lovely. You got a lot of great photos.

Sniff. Sheesh.

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Peace is doing well....she is much more alert and awake now during the day! She also sleeps well at nighttime. She will even do 4-5 hour stretches ....things seem to be getting more back to normal everyday!
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I'm working on a one true media montage...inspired by zahirakids...and will post once it's all together.
It is beautiful!!! I love it!

here's mine for those who didn't see it I updated it
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We've got dial up for the time being so I'm not able to watch the videos. I bet they are beautiful though!

Belle is just wonderful. She's six days old today and I love her to bits. She has a period of time at night when she's wide awake. I've read that you shouldn't interact then because it gives the baby the illusion that it is playtime or chill time or whatever but I can't just ignore her! She is just beautiful and wonderful and everything that is good Breastfeeding is going great and she's really chunked up. We're cosleeping which was not the intention. I bought a swing, a bouncer, and a play yard with a bassinet in preparation. She has a small amount of reflux (all my kids have had it, she's the easiest case of it ) but not enough to justify having to sleep in the bouncer or swing. I tried to put her down in the bassinet to sleep the first night. She cried, I picked her up, and she's been sleeping with us ever since

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Yay we're in LWB land! Things are going well here- I haven't been posting much as life with 3 is a bit hectic! Annabel is 5 weeks today and is such a sweet, mellow baby. Been having some fussy periods in the evenings mostly but not too bad. The boys have adjusted pretty well, right now they are playing together nicely while the baby naps in the swing-yeah I get to sit down for a little bit!
Wow all these big chunky babies! Ok anyone else have a little one? dd was 5lbs14oz at birth and 6lbs7oz at two weeks. She has a check-up next week but I'd guess she's 7ish right now, just starting to fit into her newborn sized clothes. She loves to nurse though so I think we can chunk her up .
Night time is going well here. Such a relief as ds2 was a horrendous sleeper. It is so nice not to be a complete zombie all the time.
We've been laying low and need to get back to life here, too. Been slacking off on the homeschooling big time.

So, other than it being kind of crazy, having three kids is great. The baby just fits right in, like she's been here all along.

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I'm here and trying to figure out how to balance the needs of dd and ds. Ds is very understanding when I'm not as available, but it's still hard for me to make that transition from just the two of us during the day to the three of us.

DD is still ebf in spite of the fact that it's been an uphill battle with sore nipples to this day. This even though we've had a lactation consultant (very reputable and IBCLC) and the LLL observe and say that "everything looks fine". Suspected thrush, but have ruled that one out. At this point my novice (never really nursed ds past two weeks) opinion is that she's probably got too shallow of a latch combined with my rather flat nipples (she makes a clicking sound while nursing). I've been reading up on some suggestions online, but that can only go so far. I wish I could find someone IRL who would actually be willing to *help* us. In the end all the LC did was give me a bunch of handouts - seriously...if I could be helped by something in print I wouldnt' have called her now would I?

I am very thankful, though, because even though it's painful for me she's still thriving. On Friday (5 wks) she was 11 lbs (up from 8lbs 12oz) and 23 1/2 inches long (up from 21)! I can definitely see why so many women give up bf'ing - I can't afford formula or I would have likely done so myself. Support is so key, so why is it so hard to find good help?
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From the January 2007 mommas to the January 2008's---Welcome! May your first year be as exciting and wonderful as ours has been!
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Well I have been taking it easy as my c-section turned open wound is not healed yet, but is getting much better. Dd is doing great though. She has gained back the weight she lost before coming out of the hospital. At her last weigh in she was 6lbs 8 ozs. I cant wait to see how much she gained since then. She is nursing like a champ, although she still has trouble opening her mouth wide but we are working on it.

Nightimes are still rocky as se love to be held. More and more she is ending up in my bed instead of te bassinet because she oesn't seem to really like the bassinet. But thats okay I don't mind, i think i just have to get a bigger bed now.
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Hi all!

It's been a wild ride juggling both kids! Tue and Thur I have to lug both of them on the bus to drop DD1 off at school and pick her up again in the afternoon. Today it was snowing and our afternoon bus ride was an adventure! :

DD2 is tons more fussy than my DD1 was. She has the evening cries, and she's become very particular about everything from how I nurse her to what carrier I use. She prefers the Moby and will tolerate the ring sling when in the mood. Anyways, she's a sweetheart.


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Typing oneihanded on a Blackberry while nursing two sleepy babies...

DS is 9 lb 7 oz, up from 8-11 at birth, and 7 13 at a week. (Now 16 days). Okay, no one will report me CPS for this, right? I don't change a baby's clothing unless they're dirty. With DS1, no problem, b/c he dirtied his clothing at least twice a day as a newborn, but this one doesn't. So Saturday I realized he was still in the outfit I'd put him in on Tuesday, which was way too big at that time, and he had GROWN INTO IT during the week. Not many people can say they've grown into an outfit while wearing it!

He nurses around the clock, and I'm too well-endowed to do the sling thing well. DS1 (14 mths) needs to nurse whenever the NB does, which makes things difficult. My house is a wreck, and I'm exhausted - DS also isn't great at nursing lying down, and he often won't sleep except on my chest. We did night-wean DS1, kind of precipitously - after the first few miserable nights, DH has taken to sleeping with DS in a different room. It's not as cruel as it sounds, because DS1 doesn't often wake at night when I'm not there, and he's already used to taking bottles because my milk supply was so low during pregnancy, but I still feel a little bad.
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I completely know how you feel about the house being a wreck! My DD(#2) can run through and get into more things than I can get to while nursing and it's driving me crazy!! I'm still trying to figure out the baby's routine. So far she has a sleepy time in the morning that I do not have to be holding her. She likes to be in my CuddlyWrap but not while walking to DS(#1)'s school. It's too hot. And my car seat does not snap on my old stroller. So I am buying a double stroller this coming payday. Along with some nursing bras. I have none and have been going without a bra this whole time. It's getting frustrating because I NEED a nursing bra!

I wish lots of wonderful sleep to all of us mommas!! Enough to get us through the days ahead anyways. Lol.

riverundine- what a beautiful video! The song was perfect! What an amazingly perfect latch Faith had in those shots. Thank you for sharing that. It was truly beautiful.

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Now that it is a little quieter here I'm trying to watch the videos (can't wait until we go back to faster internet! Dial up sucks!).

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I finished the photo montage. I mainly did it for Faith to have, but I'm excited about it so I'm gonna share with all of you wonderful mamas...who don't mind seeing my breasts. For those that do, you may wish to opt out of checking out the link to...faith's birth. i may not leave it up for too long, due to the intimacy of it, but i wanted to share.
Your montage is absolutely beautiful. Looks like you had a wonderful birth!

zahirakids I get an error page when trying to pull up yours. It might just be my sucky connection but you might want to check just in case.

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As per DDC request, here's a link to Aesop's montage:

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Our ds is also in tantrum land - he won't walk anymore if we go on an outing (like today, insisting on being carried)...he's 30 lbs! I was not impressed with him today - my sweet baby has become a tantruming 2 year old. Wah!

Madeleine must be going through a growth spurt...when she's hungry, she's HUNGRY, and will nurse for an hour or more. She was 8lb4oz at birth, and was 10lb2oz last dr visit (3 weeks old). She's a sweet baby, and gave me a 5 hour stretch of sleep last night - yay! But I'm super tired today...1 decent night of sleep doesn't make up for all the previous sleep deprivation...

Glad to hear all your updates! And thank you to the mamas who posted montages - I loved watching them.

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Nice video montage, To-Fu! Hugs to all the Mamas here, off to feed dd!

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riverundine- what a beautiful video! The song was perfect! What an amazingly perfect latch Faith had in those shots. Thank you for sharing that. It was truly beautiful.
: i was thinking the same thing!

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ds is about 5 1/2 weeks old. on monday he weighed a smidge over 10 lbs. his birth weight was 8 lbs, 10 oz. his latch leaves something to be desired. we had his frenulum clipped a couple of weeks ago, but his palate is still shaped in such a way that a deep latch is uncomfortable for him. lots of sliding up and down the nipple and gumming the nipple during feeds. it's much more tolerable now that the thrush is under some control. so far i still have milk, he's wetting and soiling diapers, and he's growing. i hope my milk supply continues until his latch catches up. i hope his latch catches up soon!

aside from feeding frustrations, all else is well. he's so different from my first baby. my first accepted nothing but being held all the time. the past couple of days this baby has had several times where he's upset until i put him in the swing, and then happy right away. i feel sort of detached and neglectful, only because it's so different from what i'm used to. up until a couple of days ago all of his sleep was either on my chest or facing my chest while lying in bed. i am getting some cleaning done and some time with dd, but... it's SO strange.

does everyone else worry all the time? i catch myself worrying about his weight, then minutes later i'm rotating through his diapers, weeding out the newborn stuff he's outgrown. and in the last paragraph i went on worrying about him sleeping in the swing, when i know some babies hardly sleep, or some mamas can never put their baby down to use the bathroom (that was me a few weeks ago). worry worry worry. really things are going well. he's healthy and cute.
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I worry constantly though perhaps a bit less now than in the first two-three weeks.

We're doing fine. My daughter (who we lovingly call Typhoid Issy) brought home a cold and now I'm sick and Jack seems a bit congested. He was awake every 2-2.5 hours last night where usually he gets a couple 4/5 hour blocks in. I'm tanking up on Vit. C and liquids and hoping it passes quickly. He has his next well baby checkup on Monday so we'll see then how he's gaining. It's so hard for me to tell he's growing.

My sister-in-law and I had a funny moment over the weekend where we caught ourselves intensely discussing the consistency and quality of our respective babes' poo. Oh what having a baby does to your conversation topics.

Oh and zenma, Jack sleeps/chills out so much better in the swing than he does in my arms too. He just can't sleep with me holding him or in bed with me he has to be either in the swing or snuggled up in his da's armpit. Ew. He wakes up in the morning with stinky deodorant head.
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Ugh. What do I do with a toddler who, while happily playing legos with me while baby sister is chilling on the floor, looks up with a smile and says "I'm peeing....on the floor....in my underwear" He's wearing boxer briefs, so I look down and see a big yellow puddle forming on the carpet. Ugh.

I don't quite know what to do with that. He's been mostly dry for sooooooo long that I didn't think we'd have regression. But this looks like a power issue to me, and I just don't know how to react. My gut is PISSED that I now have to clean up the carpet. But I know I should probably just give him a happy "Oops! Pee goes in the toilet, not on the rug. Let's clean it up!" but my PP self just can't muster that right now.

My LLL leader yesterday mentioned to me that anger can be a sign of PPD, and I definitely feel angry more often than I ever have before. I'm yelling all of the time (unless I REALLY concentrate on it). Anyone BTDT and have some thoughts?

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But this looks like a power issue to me, and I just don't know how to react. My gut is PISSED that I now have to clean up the carpet. But I know I should probably just give him a happy "Oops! Pee goes in the toilet, not on the rug. Let's clean it up!" but my PP self just can't muster that right now.

My LLL leader yesterday mentioned to me that anger can be a sign of PPD, and I definitely feel angry more often than I ever have before. I'm yelling all of the time (unless I REALLY concentrate on it). Anyone BTDT and have some thoughts?

I can relate - sort of. My ds is regressing, in that he wants to be carried allllll the time (he's 30 lbs and very solid, so this is tiring for me). This is definitely related to the new baby, as he does this only with me, and only since Madeleine was born. He will plunk himself down on the sidewalk, not to move, if I insist on him walking places! I was definitely angry with him yesterday, but I don't think I have PPD - just severe sleep deprivation. My anger/frustration is tempered by laughter and tenderness - perhaps if the anger is omnipresent, a visit to your dr/midwife might be in order.

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