And Sunday we were supposed to go to the Poconos for a day trip but we hadn't prepared for it the night before and since it is our only day to sort of lounge around and sleep in (yeah right, willem comes pouncing in on our bed just as we were stirring and starting to cuddle, hoping for a quicky before he woke up... at 5:30 am!!!) So we didn't really get to go there either. But it's okay because it was hot and I was sore all over and just wanted to rest in the morning. So instead we decided to go to the last day of the Grange Fair in the area. We should have gone in the morning so Willem could have seen more animals etc but we waited until after his nap to go and as luck has it, he napped late. So we got there just in the nick of time. They were already taking all the stalls down for the sheep and cows. The rest of the smaller animals were already gone too. Willem is an animal lover. I can't wait until we can finally move into the country (in a few years) and get some animals of our own... like goats, and chickens etc. Oh, and we got almost all our food for free. I don't know about you but I just can't go to one of those things without getting a funnel cake!!! But there were no places still set up making them. Anyway, so it was fun and afterward we drove up to New Hope a cool little cultural community across the river from NJ and we walked around, poking around in shops and taking pictures by the river.
Pregancy wise I'm feeling relatively good for 31 weeks. I still feel like I'm small but I really think the baby is starting to grow. There has been a definite change in the quality of the baby's movements, not really flutters anymore it's more like poking and kicking and punching now. I see my midwives on Thursday and then I'll start seeing them every two weeks from then on.
I feel like there is still so much I have to do before baby gets here. We are pretty much set for baby stuff but I'm still going to register at Baby's R U and Target for stuff we can use later on. I've been getting more organized about it, taking inventories of what we have and what we need. I've decided I'm going to try *not* to buy any more things for the baby until after my MIL throws the baby shower in October. We are not really in a position financially to dole out more than we need to so after the shower will give me a better idea.
I want to start cooking and canning and freezing stuff, meals and summer produce, but we desperately need a freezer and I don't know if I can talk dh into squeezing one into our budget. I have faithfully looked for one all summer at yard sales etc, but I think we'll have to just dunk in and get one. I'm trying to imagine what it's going to be like with a 20 month old and a newborn, ALL BY MYSELF all day long. I can't imagine I'll be out and about much because two car seats in a little Honda Civic just doesn't seem safe to me. So I'm trying to mentally prepare myself for the adjustments in the coming months, and also want to get a lot prepared (freezer-wise) so the transition is a little easier too.
As far as Christmas shopping is concerned... I'm totally using the baby as an excuse!!! we don't have $$ to buy stuff for dh's HUGE family. I want the house to be all decorated for the holidays so we'll forego any hugely expensive gifts this year... maybe the freezer can be mine in advance .I think as far as I'll go otherwise is maybe make my own Christmas cards and include a family picture. We have a membership at the Picture People, so we'll schedule a family pic after the baby is born and just get a bunch of duplicates done.
Well, done with my check in. Hope everyone is doing and feeling well this week too!
My not-so-great news is that I think I may have gallstones. I'm going to the midwife today and will probably have to get an ultrasound this week. I'm *HOPING* it is anything else, but I just have a sinking feeling that's what it is. Definitely not looking forward to spending the next 3 months dealing with that.
On the bright side, I'm expecting two huge boxes of baby clothes from my friend (her little girl is 3) and another box of registry stuff within the week, so yay! Presents are fun.
We went. I tried to be happy. MIL is so clueless with Ben. She completely invades his space, hugging on him and trying to kiss him when he doesnt want it. (Respect the kids space!). She will start to sing and he asks her to stop and she doesnt, so he gets mad. At one point, he went in to ask BIL if the hotdogs were ready yet and I was so proud to hear him ask so nicely, and talk, etc etc. MIL just steps in between them, ignores Ben completely and says "Did you come to give Gramma a hug?" Ben starts crying because he was trying to ask BIL a question. WTF? :
SILs kids are really ill behaved. At one point, when Ben was arranging his letters (its his obsession) 9yo cousin says outloud "he is so weird." Wonderful. This family is so insensitive! I could say they are weird for making every single toy into a gun and playing violent games all the time. Leave my damn autistic son alone! Whew....that felt good.
And as we were leaving, Ben started having meltdowns, so it was hard. I spent the whole 45 min ride home trying not to tell Dh "see...this is why I didnt want to come!"
Sunday was more fun. We had a birth network meeting and a shower for one of the girls, so I was out of the house for 7 hours. I was exhausted when I got home, but it was nice to get away and DH and Ben needed some quality bonding time. Ben is really a mamas boy, so when DH is around, he always comes to me anyway. When I am not around, they get along much better.
I still feel pretty good. 28w tomorrow, so I wonder when the other shoe will fall and the misery will kick in? I move slowly, I get aches and pain at night when I sleep. I have some heartburn after dinner. But for the most part, I don't feel as miserable as I remember from last time. I love my chiro, I give her a lot of credit, since I have chronic SI Joint issues and she has kept it fairly pain free for the whole pregnancy. I can't really afford her, but I can't really afford not to go, YKWIM?
MW appt tomorrow. MY BP levels have been great at home. My nurse friend took it on Friday and it was 124/72, so I feel pretty confident that if its high tomorrow, its "white coat syndrome" even though my MWs dont wear white coats. :LOL I will bring my log and really, since its been so good at home, at different points during the day, i cannot imagine this will keep me from homebirthing. We shall see.
Yesterday we took a vintage train ride out to the beach (Sam loves trains, and it is fun when the MTA takes the vintage cars out of the museum and runs them on the subway tracks!). We had a ball hanging out at the beach - Sam was totally into playing in the waves and the water for really the first time, so that was wonderful! We all got really wet. I'm taking Fri and Mon off, so hopefully we can make it back out to the beach again this weekend.
I have to go to Milwaukee on business tomorrow (just overnight) and then Thursday we move offices, so it's just kind of a weird week. The next two weeks are also short weeks because of Labor Day, so I'm hoping we get some stuff down around the apartment!
We're meeting with the HB MW this evening, and I can't wait. My mom is really not on board with it, but she will need to get over it. I feel like her negativity will jinx us, so she'd better get over it!
In the meantime, Sam has declared that he is one of my midwives and he will deliver the baby, and he asked me "Mommy, are there any man midwives?" and the whole thing is just so sweet I can't stand it!
He also asked how we got the baby in there. So we actually showed him some photos of sperm and eggs and stuff, so now he tells everyone that daddy put his sperm in mommy's egg and now there is a baby in mommy's uterus. I must say, some people are kind of taken aback by it, but at least he has his facts right! People will say - how's the baby in mommy's belly and he says - it's not in her belly, it's in her uterus!
In the meantime...some of the benefits of working here. One of my clients sent me a bouncy seat and a swing, and I got a whole box full of brand new clothes left from a client who didn't want them back. So that is pretty cool! Wish I could have had someone send me a Medela pump, but I guess that is too much to ask for. I'm kind of curious to see if they are going to try to do anything for me here at work or if Sam is too recent to warrant getting stuff for me. Sometimes when people have babies more than 3 years apart, they do parties or money collection etc. The only things I expect to be spending money on though are the carrier I want and the diaper service. I think that at the end of the day, I'll have everything else that I need. Anyway, it's something fun to think about!
Jenn - sorry about the yucky trip to MIL's - I hate it when people won't take the time/energy to get to know kids (in the family especially) better!
Amy - gallstones EEEK! I hope things get resolved quickly
Willemsmamma - I feel like I have too much left to do also!
Things are going well here. I feel good physically, but I am pretty much emotionally DONE with being pg. : Pretty crazy for 26 weeks huh? Obviously, she needs a lot more time to cook and I want her to be as healthy as possible. Maybe a better way to say it is that I just want November to get here faster! I know that much of this has to do with losing Kira and my thoughts are normal for my situation, but it's still not fun. I am just so looking forward to bringing this baby home that I can hardly stand the wait!
Oh - and I heard from the midwife's office today that my iron is "a little low" and the nurse said to take Slow FE for 6 weeks. I'm going to call back and talk directly to the midwife to see what alternatives I have (diet, herbs etc... ) I know that a few others here have posted about low iron. What seems to be helping you?
Hope everyone is feeling comfy this week - it's HOT here!
samsmom- cute story about sam and your uterus.
bensmom- put your foot down next time, make her come see you.
amy- I hope that it's not gall stones, and I hope you aren't in too much pain. Keep us posted.
DH was out of town this weekend to visit his dad. I was lonely and a little put out, having to do a lot of the "bigger" things (take out trash, walk the dogs) by myself. It made me truly appreciate him and put my own princessness in perspective. But he came back with his dad's neighbor's most delicious fig preserves, which I have already popped and eaten half a jar of. My glucose test is tomorrow -- I wonder how a pound of fig preserves wil alter my results?
Also I had my first dream about the baby last night. I was in labor in a really serene seafoam green bedroom, and right when I hit 8.5 cm I slipped out of consciousness. When I woke up, the baby was born, and nearly 3 months old. She was just adorable -- DH's hazel, almond-shaped eyes and crazy dark hair, and a beautiful round face. He had put her hair up in these two wispy pigtails on top of her head and they were both just laying in bed waiting for me to get up. I had a ton of questions about her, and it was just the most natural thing in the world that I had fallen asleep while giving birth.
I'm hoping that means I'll be really REALLY relaxed come November!
I did very little - and I had a 4-day weekend to boot! I picked blackberries and made a delightful blackberry, lime & gin sorbet (not enough gin to matter, don't worry!). Yesterday DH and I went and pillaged an old (and untended) orchard on public land near my work and got some delicious early apples, but I haven't turned them into pie yet. Aside from that, it was a nice lazy weekend. Oh, and DH got me a pressure cooker, yay! I can start preserving stuff.
Work this week is going to be insane - training customers, bleh. Now I am going to cook dinner and just relax.
Postpartum doula & certified breastfeeding educator, mama to an amazing girl (11/05) and a wee little boy (3/13).
Our weekend was good, we got a lot of set-up and painting done, and finally picked out a rocking chair for my mother to buy us. I didn't really want one, but she was insistant so we got a nice upholstered chair and ottoman that happens to rock. Now, of course, we have way too much furniture and are trying to shuffle things around so that we can both fit everything and baby-proof at the same time. We've also been decluttering and donating like mad since there was a huge tornado in the town due south of us and lots of people lost everything.
Spending all of my money and time on this wild, wild life.
Spughy - : and : on the fig preserves....SO craving naughty, sweet things...
Bensmom - ack! I would be absolutely livid!! DON'T poke a pregnant mama with a stick...SIL's kids are very...uh...spirited (trying so hard to be diplomatic) and are always physically attacking DD in some way (grabbing, pulling hair, lifting, 'hugging and kissing', smothering...) Poor DD does NOT like her personal space invaded -she's very sensitive and quiet. It makes my head spin and every ounce of being not to scream bloody murder. I agree...LEAVE THEM ALONE!!!!
I had a silly, PG brain weekend - I thought that I was meeting friends on Saturday an hour's drive away first thing in the a.m. so got DD and DH out of bed and on the road at 8:30 am...only to re-read the email I had that said NEXT weekend. DH thought that it was punishment enough that I was so mortified : We ended up going to the zoo (please don't slam me...I'm not very happy from a politica POV that I went, but DH decided that we were so far out of the city that we might as well). Anyway, as karma would have it, I spent 4 hours walking around in the sun and ended up getting cramps again today. I feel bruised and sore down there and like I've been riding a horse. (sigh) I see my OB again tomorrow, and have taken the week off of work again (I work pt - only 2 days). DH, of course, is out of town on business for the week so I have to lift DD and haul her around pretty much myself, which is adding to the discomfort. I don't know what to do...I'm 28 weeks and I'm SURE this babe will be early. But god...not that early! We need more cooking time!!
It's still hot, sunny and humid out here...never thought I'd want Fall as much as this...
All I'm going to say is, birthdays are bad and evil. I have a 5yo and a 31yo who have BOTH decided that they don't want to grow up, don't want to get any older, didn't want to hint about presents and didn't want home-made birthday cake.(No, I'm not sulking. It delights me to spend four times as much on a shop-bought cake that tastes like sawdust and means nobody is sleeping tonight. Honest.)
Looking on the bright side, Steve and I have finally worked things out. We re-married each other the other night- I'd been fretting, on some level, about having not committed to being with him in sickness and in health, given the mental health stuff he's going through, so we dug through the internet, found the wording and made our vows again. It feels very, very right.
I was dreaming about this little one the other night- a cute little square face with a button nose, dark brown eyes like Steve's and a shock of black hair! (I don't DO babies with hair- they've all been bald.) lying on Isaac's lambskin, gurgling and giggling at us. I really want to know what this baby looks like, and how different to the boys s/he is.
No problems with zoos here- we have a season ticket to the one down the road (used to go at least once a week when the boys were preschoolers) and spend a fair amount of time there.
DH and I are trying to catch up on household stuff that we've been neglecting because somehow almost every weekend has had something scheduled since June. So instead of shopping for babe or rearranging furniture, or finishing up the yard or any of that project stuff I want to be doing we had to spend a day just dealing with neglected laundry and cleaning, and didn't even get to take the pooch for his outing. He's also neglected.
I'm mostly doing well, but having real trouble with my joints hurting late at night. That's why I am up and posting at 4:00 AM.
I've also got to get my act together and register somewhere. Friends are throwing a shower for us in Oct, and I need to provide guest list, and gift list, and I'm slightly stressed by this, even though I shouldn't be. As is lots of folks have given us handme downs so we have many of the major bases covered. I'm thinking of registering for something from Heifer International, and hanging a picture in the babies room.
DH and I "celebrated" our anniversary by going to a childbirth class that we will probably take. I wish I clicked more with the instructor, but I like the other people in the class, and it's the only homebirth class available. He's going to take me out for something chocolate tomorrow night.
I'm panicking a little bit that we are getting so near the end of pregnancy, and I've done so little of what I hoped to. Trying to let it go, but still have to arrange logistics for so many things. My parents will be coming out for the birth, and I'm excited, but I can't really figure out when to ask them for. They are on the other side of the country so it's all got to be planned now, and Mom wants to stay somewhere else after the babe is born so we will have privacy. So I'm trying to figure that out too.
I really should be trying to get back to sleep as the painter is here tomorrow and I have prenatal yoga in the morning.
We had a little vacation last week, and now that I'm back at work, I'm panicking a bit about how little time I have left! I need to do some work-related travel, and I don't have a lot of time to fit it in. Plus, I've been thinking I had oodles of time to get baby stuff ready, but that time is ticking away, too. Even though the baby will be co-sleeping with us, we'll be decorating a nursery to keep MIL busy . That means we have to clean out the bedroom that is currently an office, and move everything to another room. That all has to happen in the next three weeks, since DH will be between courses at that time.
So many other things I have planned to do...hypnobabies course, knitting, etc...but by the time I get home from work, take care of DD and get the house stuff taken care of, I'm ready for bed myself!
HAving babies so close together SEEMED like a good idea at the time!...
I have a cold still, and feel crappy, and it looks like I do indeed have gallstones. I visited the midwife yesterday and she said that based on the location of my pain, she's not sure what else it could be. I was so disappointed, y'all, (like irrationally so) - I guess I've just been feeling like my body is letting me down. I eat a really healthy diet (hardly any fats, which is what they say can cause it), lots of fruits and veggies, very little red meat. She did say it could be hereditary so I called my dad and found out both he and my grandmother had their gallbladders removed, so I guess that explains it to a degree. Still the idea of going through the next 3 months enduring this pain is really depressing. Belleweather, what medicine are you taking? I didn't know that was an option! A friend had gallstones with her second child and basically just dealt with it til after she was born. Anyway, my ultrasound is tomorrow morning so we'll see how severe the situation is.
Helen, I'm so glad you and DH are at a better place. That must make life seem better all-around.
Well I have to take DD (darling doggie) to the vet so I must go now. Glad to hear that everyone is doing well and having a good week, it sounds like!
We spent most of our weekend in our continuing efforts to turn our basement into real living space and our office into Nate's room. Slowly but surely we are getting there, but I'm feeling a bit guilty about the fact that I've been so focused on house purchases and decorating N's room that I have done NOTHING for the baby. I've purchased exactly one thing - a tube of Boudreax's butt paste. How sad am I?
We went to the county fair and N actually rode some rides by himself, which of course made me sad that my baby is so grown up. Then I found a gorgeous two foot tall handcarved giraffe for his new zoo room. So, at least his room is coming together and we can hopefully move him soon. I'm not really looking forward to that, but it was his choice, not mine.
As someone else said, I am so over being pregnant. I'm certainly not ready for the baby to be here (especially since I'm only 28 weeks), but I'm just tired of it all. Tired of being hot, tired of being tired, tired of heartburn... This pregnancy took so long to achieve, you'd think I'd be loving every minute of it, but really I just want to fast forward to a healthy baby in my arms.
Off to continue researching cloth diapers... Hope everyone's week is going well.
I only gained 2 lbs this month, which is good since I have had huge gains in prior months. The working out seems to be keeping my fat gain down, since the baby is definitely growing fine. Measured 32(!) and the baby feels head up. That bums me out a bit. Ben was always head down, and I see the chiro and get the webster techique done every week. But it could explain why I dont seem to be as uncomfortable as some of you ladies and the kicks are all down so low. I'm 28w today, so there is time for this babe to flip.
Everything else is peachy. WE talked about all the awesome changes in my life that are making me less stressed and they both said I looked so much more relaxed at this appt (I was still working at my last one). I feel great. Almost too great. I think the exercise is keeping my energy levels up. I do crash at around 3p every day...but for the most part, I still feel like I am on the tail end of the 2nd tri. Considering I am around 100 lbs overweight, I just wonder why I feel so good?
Hope everyone else is having a wonderful week! I have a 3 day weekend doula training coming up that might be fun, but I will be away from DS all day. I will miss my little guy. And after that, I just get to look forward to vacation in FL! Ahhh, I need it sooo bad!!!!
My baby must be having a huge growth spurt right now because in just the last week my stomach has grown out a couple inches and I am STARVING today! Not much else to tell here - I am enjoying this pregnancy so much that I'm in no big hurry for it to end. My main problem is that I still fit into all of my sz. medium maternity clothes, but the shirts are almost all too short now to cover my stomach. But in size larges I look like I'm drowning and I'm not going for the tent look this pregnancy. I think I'm just going to have to sew additional length on to all of my tops - hopefully it won't look too silly.
♥ Handmade dress shop owner and mama of five - our littlest just born in December! ♥
Part of the "bargain" that I made with myself and the universe when I was having a hard time getting pregnant is that I would be the most grateful and uncomplaining pregnant woman possible. I thought that as punishment I would have a crappy pregnancy and feel forced to shut up and not complain about it. So far this is not the case. Someone remind me of this in November, okay?
I will whine about work, however...my entire last set of shifts we have worked short-staffed, and it's beginning to get insane. I usually get called at least once a day on my days off looking for me to work overtime shifts. The hospital management know that our pre-registration numbers are higher for Aug and Sept this year, but they aren't able to get enough staff to fill even normal levels. I've been working a lot in assessment/triage lately, and it sucks to have women labouring for hours in the assessment area or even waiting room because of lack of LDR staff. On Sunday night I looked after two women who I didn't manage to transfer to birthing rooms until they were pushing- both had been in assessment for hours!! The more time I spend at the hospital, the happier I am that I'm having a home birth.
"Guess what? It's a magical world. And when I sing, my songs are in it."
Madly in love with my 7 and 4 year old daughters
I also know what you mean about feeling betrayed by your body... I worked so hard to get pregnant and was so excited when I was having a pretty normal, healthy pregnancy. I've had gynecological problems my whole life, and finally felt like my body wasn't a lemon, and could do this and like I had some peace with my girl parts and then my stupid GALLBLADDER had to go and ruin it. :
Flapjack: They keep telling me that -- about gallstone pain being so much worse than child birth. If it's true (and I'm crossing my fingers) then I'm in like flynn, because my cramps from endo made passing the gallstone look like a walk in the park.
Bensmom My baby is still flipping between transverse and breach himself, with the occasional stop with his head down. Don't worry too much yet... They might as well enjoy the space while they've got it!
Work got off to a chaotic start this week -- it looks like I have to appear in court next monday and I'm totally unprepared. I don't even get to argue anything, I just wrote the brief and did the research on the project that is in front of the judge, but my attorney wants me there to back her up. So not only do I have to deal with a several hour car ride, but I also have to hunt up something court-appropriate to wear at the point when I swear my belly grows a couple of inches per day. I wonder if they'd let me show up in a mumu?
Also, the nesting urge is kicking in and I'm realising not only how much stuff we have to do for the baby, but how little time we'll have to do it in after school starts next week. My prayers to the God of calenders have not come true, and they haven't obliged me by sticking an extra three weeks into august so I have no clue how we're going to get anything done! I haven't even bought *diapers* yet. Of course, I could be doing some of that rather than babbling at you all on the internet, but my joints are screaming for a rest, so I just sit here whining. No good.
Spending all of my money and time on this wild, wild life.
Sorry about the gallstones, Amy and Belleweather I hope it doesn't turn out to be too painful or a big deal.
As for me, the insomnia is still pretty bad, but at least I haven't been up ALL night every night- on Sat. night I was, and I was so frustrated and upset and delirious from lack of sleep that I was crying all morning. I find that herbs really don't work for me...I think my problem is so severe that they just don't touch me. I am still trying to avoid benadryl, though, so I keep listening to my hypnobirthing cd's and have dh read the scripts to me to help me fall asleep.
And, things are so tough with ds right now- we had the most awful day yesterday, and I am really ashamed to admit that I totally screamed at him (because he wouldn't stop screaming ALL DAY LONG! Oh, the irony) I just get to the end of my rope sometimes when I try to so hard to be patient and understanding of what he's feeling, and he does nothing but fuss and scream and beat up other kids all day. I know he's getting a molar and keeps saying he has boo-boo's in different places so maybe he's having growing pains??? I don't know. But I felt so awful and depressed about myself as a mother last night, I just cried and cried before I went to sleep. I just KNOW that this baby is going to be a piece of cake!
Sorry to complain all the time- life really is good, I promise. I am thankful to have a healthy pregnancy, active baby, good friends (both IRL and online ) and a loving and helpful partner. And the heat has broken somewhat (funny how 85 degrees is now considered 'cool weather'!).
And work...that's another thread...I have decided in my mind that I'm not going back- I haven't told them yet, and dread doing so. I decided I will only have the chance to be a sahm once in my life, and my baby will only be tiny once- enjoy this time while I can because it will be fleeting. We totally can't afford it- my PT salary about pays the mortgage, and we are already transferring $ from savings to make up the difference each month, but you know- this is important, and this time in life will never come back, so I need to do this for a little while, at least.
Ok, well it's been fun reading all your news The babe is kicking my guts out as I write!
I'm getting interviewed on Thursday by a reporter for the paper about hypnobirthing - should be interesting, especially since I haven't done it yet! But both the hypnobirthing classes and our prenatal classes are drawing closer and it's all starting to seem more real. Time is whipping by!!!
Hope all the gallstones out there behave themselves and everyone else has a nice, peaceful week.
Postpartum doula & certified breastfeeding educator, mama to an amazing girl (11/05) and a wee little boy (3/13).
Spughy- yay! Sorry that your pubic bone is still being naughty, but at least it's getting sorted.
Originally Posted by flapjack
Itsybitsy- there was one day when the boys were 3 and 2 that I took them to the middle of a field and we just lay on our backs, held hands, and screamed.
So good and great news:
No gallstones!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so happy. The tech said my gallbladder looked perfectly normal, and my liver and right kidney looked great. So, really no telling what is causing the pain, but my midwife said it could just be gallbladder spasms caused by pressure of my uterus. They are waiting for the bloodwork to come back, and then I'll talk to her again to see if there is any other conclusion to come to. I'm just *very* relieved that it looks normal for now and that I don't have to worry about having it removed, ya know? Even though I'm still having pain, I feel like I can manage it for the next few months and not feel worried.
But even better than that, the ultrasound tech agreed to sneak a peek at Brynn, and she is head down!! She had been head-up until yesterday, but last night I felt some crazy movement, much more activity than I have ever felt before (and kicks in places where I had not felt them), so I asked the tech if she would mind looking because I had suspected that she'd flipped. Sure enough, she is head-down!! This just made my day. We spent several minutes looking at her face, and it was just beautiful, it made me want to cry. She already looks so different than her 19-week ultrasound when she had no fat. She just looks like a beautiful baby now with full lips and little button nose! She was even sucking and swalling amniotic fluid and kind of stuck her tongue out for a second. It was awesome. I was just really sad that DH wasn't there (because we weren't expecting to be able to see the baby), and he kept asking me over and over what she looks like now. We saw her hands and feet, and her heart beating, and her little booty and labia again (which I have to admit, was kind of reassuring since we now have so much girl stuff, but she is *definitely* a girl). It just made my day, perhaps even my week.
Amy, are you allowed to do a gallbladder cleanse while pregnant? I can't imagine it being bad for the baby as it involves only olive oil and lemon juice. My dad passed what looked like a string of beads after doing it a couple of nights in a row.
Gunter, your inbox is full but thanks for the info... I'll definitely look into it!!!
I feel like I'm kinda throwing up my hands this week. I'm tired but don't nap with Willem so I guess it's my own fault. The house remains a huge disaster. I mean, I vacumed like two days ago but you should see the junk and dirt ds drags onto the carpet within like two hours. I can't keep up with the laundry and with ds constantly pulling things around the house. DH does his share around here just cooking and keeping the kitchen in relative order... but that's all he has time to do really.
I feel... weird. Pregnant, yes, but just weird. I'm tired and sore down there. This morning it felt like I had given birth, all the muscles and tissues were SO sore. I'm going to talk to my midwives about it tomorrow but maybe it's just tissue memory. I was really sore after Willem was born... for like almost three weeks.
I can't get a hold of the doctor's office that I was supposed to contact for a family phys. consult. This is the Doc who was supposed to be our backup/get me in the system. You kind of have to go around corners here in PA because of midwifery being alegal(sp?). Anyway, hope my midwives aren't too upset with me. They really want their clients to have a file in the hospital system before the birth because it if not the doctors around here tend to take extra invasive measures for homebirth attempting moms. I just hate having to fuss with it all because I know intuitively that everything is going to go smoothly with this birth. Sure it will be hard work and I expect pain etc but I know the baby and I will be fine.
Alright, my pg mind can't think of anything more to say.
Well all of sudden last week, she started coming up with excuses why they couldn't come. Her work, his work, blah blah. It all sounded like excuses and the last story is that he cant get off work. But apparently, he cancelled both of their tickets?! You can't just cancel airline tickets, can you? These were bought at a sale fare. He doesnt want her to come alone? WTF? She has been coming here alone long before they met.
My intution tells me that she never bought the plane tickets in the first place and doesnt want to tell me that, since I explicitely told her that I would not book the house in FL til she did. Now that its too late, and on a holiday weekend, she cant find a fare under $500. I am really bummed. Partly because she will not be coming, partly because I don't understand all the stupidity. I have a strong personality and she doesn't like conflict, but come on...just be honest!
We are meeting one other couple there, another super good couple friend who live in another part of FL, so the trip should still be fun and relaxing. But we were really looking forward to the blend of the 3 couples. It would have been a fun match of personalities. And my friend insists that she will pay for her share of the house, but we'll see....
So, does anyone want to meet us in the FL panhandle on Sept 7th? :LOL
Willemsmama, I've never heard of a gallbladder cleanse. It sounds harmless enough. Can I find out about that online, ya think?
Itsybitsy, how is your insomnia? Any relief yet?
Spughy, let us know how your interview goes today!
Plagio, good to have you back!!
Everything is good here. The weather is cooling off, which is so wonderful I can't even tell you. It makes me feel happy and energetic again. Besides the back pain, I have been feeling really good and have actually been enjoying the pregnancy a lot lately. I read in another thread that some of you feel like you are ready to get the show in the road, but I'm just kind of happy and dreamy lately. Maybe it's because I started Hypnobabies this week! LOL! Last night after I listened to my relaxation CD, DH came into the room and said it looked like I'd just had sex. :LOL I have to admit, I am really enjoying it and definitely relishing the feelings of deep relaxation and peace.
Well I'm off. Hope you are all fab!