OK, I have my 37w mw appt tomorrow, and I've been following the threads and see that a lot of you know how dilated you are etc.
I'm trying to decide if I should ask her to check.
Here's the thing: I have no aversion in prinicpal to it, other than that I find it uncomfortable. But I'm not sure if there is any benefit to me in doing it, since it won't necessarily tell me anything. I mean, i could be showing some dilation and effacement and still have 4 weeks to go, or I could be showing nothing and have as many or fewer weeks to go. I don't know if it will stress me out more to know or not.
Today I'm jsut uncomfortable and really trying to tell this babe to come over the weekend or on Monday or Tuesday because then I'll only have 3 days unpaid maternity leave, and that would be nice. If I go to my due date, I'm looking at about 7 days unpaid, and I haven't yet figured out every permutation in the middle, but I think it puts me up around 10-12 days unpaid. I hate that I have to stress about this. But I'm feeling neurotic right now.