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#1 of 14 Old 05-11-2005, 03:58 AM - Thread Starter
 
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I've had some bleeding on and off... and after an emergency visit last night that showed hcg numbers at only 3800 (should be at least 7000 but more like 50000 at this point) I went in for an u/s this afternoon...

U/s showed no tubal pregnancy that we could see... but also showed just a gestational sac in the uterus with nothing viable to be seen. So we either had a wee one that already died and is reabsorbed or a blighted ovum...

My miscarriage of the rest of the stuff has not started so we are just taking numbers and waiting for it to happen. I'd like my body to take care of this itself...

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Oh Tammy,

I am so so sorry to hear your news.

You and your family will be in my thoughts.
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((((Tammy)))),

I'm *so* sorry you're experiencing another loss .I was so hoping this little one would grow to join your wonderful little family.
I'll keep you in my thoughts, and although we don't know each other all that well, I'll be here if you need to talk. Trust in your body to do what it needs to do to get through this, and also that it will provide you with the child you long for, when it's ready to.



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Soooo sorry you are going through this. Hugs.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I can completely empathize with you, having gone through 2 m/c's with the most recent one being 2 mos ago....
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Tammy, I am so, so sorry. I feel like I've already gotten to know you a little bit from your posts. I'll miss you and hold you in my thoughts as you grieve and let your body do what it needs to do. Be gentle with yourself and take good care. Hugs,

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Shannon Shaun - DH (and boyfriend since I was 16). my sweet Gwen 1/1/06 missing Dresden born sleeping 39 weeks 9/9/08 :, Delaney is scheduled to arrive 8/31/09 Odin&Loki :
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I'm so sorry for your loss.

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So sorry!
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I'm so sorry for your loss Tammy.

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I am so sorry.

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Tammy, I am so very sorry for your loss. I wish I had the words to comfort the loss you must be feeling right now.
(((HUGS)))
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So sorry...
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