It's my job.
DH has never given it a thought. He just considers it part of my job.
I told him I look forward to our weekends, but all I see for myself is another day of feeding everyone.
I wish sometimes YOU would plan the food or make a meal.
He said "That's your thing, just like shoveling the snow off the driveway, mowing the lawn, raking leaves.............................................. is my thing."
The difference is; I'm doing this 7 days a week. Laundry- 7 days a week.
Not to mention nursing a baby all night.
How does he NOT see the inequity? He just doesnt see it.
I don't mind most of the time. I do a menu every Monday and I'm pretty organized, but I just get sick of standing at the kitchen counter 7 days a week. When I need a break, we have to order out, or go out. I have to be careful for the money part though, so I have limited options with that.
DH has never given it a thought. He just considers it part of my job.
I told him I look forward to our weekends, but all I see for myself is another day of feeding everyone.
I wish sometimes YOU would plan the food or make a meal.
He said "That's your thing, just like shoveling the snow off the driveway, mowing the lawn, raking leaves.............................................. is my thing."
The difference is; I'm doing this 7 days a week. Laundry- 7 days a week.
Not to mention nursing a baby all night.
How does he NOT see the inequity? He just doesnt see it.
I don't mind most of the time. I do a menu every Monday and I'm pretty organized, but I just get sick of standing at the kitchen counter 7 days a week. When I need a break, we have to order out, or go out. I have to be careful for the money part though, so I have limited options with that.