my son and i moved in with my partner. i`ve known him for almost 12 years. my son has known him for a year but two or three days in a row, twice. in other words, just got to know him now and loves him. it`s my partner who is having a hard time here.
he was the one who toldme there was nothing dificult about getting together, but it`s very hard for him. sometimes sais he doesn`t want to be with us for an afternoon, needs some time off. i understand that. it`s hard enough to have your life changed when your son is born...i can only imagine what it must be like to have your life changed overnight with a partner and son, that isn`t yours...
i get angry at times. i wish everything would be perfect, now, today and not have to give more time, time and more time...we`ve had a difficult year.
anyway, does anyone live in this situation? you, your child and partner? can you help me out? how can we make it easier for all of us? thanks!