: forgive + forget; sometimes people who aren't normally dishonest, lie under pressure.Husband Trashing Your DD
: Unacceptable. Period. Talk about it, if you need help getting through to him then go to a counselor.SD overshadowing DD
: It's fine. It's not a competition so TRY real hard to stop seeing things that way. Be proud of SD and see her like a 2nd daughter of yours. Don't try to change DD and accept her for who she is. She may be young but she'll be able to pick up on your tension soon and start feeling like somewhat of a failure. Just let kids be kids.