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I am recently divorced. My ex left me for his co-worker and they are still together and planning a life together. Despite being devestated by the divorce....I sincerely want to develop a workable relationship with StepMom.
What would you wish the bio mom in your life would have done to make the relationship better? Or what advice would you give?
I am blessed in that she is nice and my children really like her. I have made it very clear to my babies that it is just fine that they like her, fine to love her. That nothing changes that I'm their mom and they are their own people who can choose who to love.
I know myself, I am the hovering, overprotective mother I never wanted to be (haha!) but I do want to try.
Thanks in advance for your input!
Student mama to Lyra June ( 10.24.09) and Olive Isis (12.12.11)
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