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Midwifery student , Mama to my 4 amazing kids.
Very sorry to hear this, as we suffered the same, for years.
#1 - How do you know what the mother is saying to the child?
We do not know everything that she says to the child but on some of the issues we have heard her in the back round coaching the child on what to say and also the child has said things during visits that have lead us to believe this and lastly
the child's enthusiasm to see daddy has changed
I wasn't asking because I doubted what you originally said. When you know a child well, you have a sense of what comes out of her naturally and what she is influenced to say or think, even when you don't have "proof". I was just wondering if you had anything concrete to present to a court or custodial evaluator. Unfortunately, it doesn't sound like it. The ex would, of course, deny coaching the child; attack the credibility of your husband's claims about what a 3-year-old said; and insist that if the child's less enthusiastic about visiting Daddy it's because he's abusing her.
But, again, read my previous post. Don't give up. These things are long wars and you're only at the beginning.
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