My DP ex wife has graduated,and is now a RN she works crazy hours.He has there kids most days of the week.When she works night's she has there kids stay over during thoughs days,yet they stay day ,and night for 3 days then she picks them up on the day before she has a day off.So he usually has them for 3-4 days.Then when she works days she will bring them over at like 5-6 AM.So lately I have told him to just have them sleep over due to the fact,that I don't think a kids should be waking up that early.The 3 year old is usually cranky during the days he has been woke up early.She usually just has them one or 2 days a week for herself,and the weekends.Last week he had them that whole week.We love the kids so we are fine with that.Yet it is hard with me me being pregnant,and dealing with his two and my two.Although at the end of the day it is rewarding.
Now when this first started she told my DP that she would drop child support,but he had to buy them there own clothing.He did that.Well she backed out of dropping the child support after she started working days (funny thing is she has nights this week).He is paying for preschool for the older child.He pays close to 600 dollars in child support a month for them.And she has the nerve to tell him that now that the kids have medical through her that he might be paying more.Since I am pregnant,he likes to go to DR appt's with me.Well she has controled that,and thretened to put the younger one back in daycare if he has appt all the time.She says they are excuses.
He does not work.He was injured in accident years ago,and lives off of the money from that,and he is not getting disability at this time.He does put his all into raising there kids with love,and compasion.He buys them stuff all the time,and has a fridge full of healthy food.Yet he is struggling monthly to make ends meet.
So what are his rights here?She has the chunck of custody,yet my DP has there children all the time.He is writing dates,down and stuff to take to lawyer.I have told him to talk to her yet he is scared of her using his past use of MJ against him when they were together. (he does not do it anymore but still scares him)
Any advice,any thing else he should do?Something he should bring up to his lawyer,or her?
Thank You.
Now when this first started she told my DP that she would drop child support,but he had to buy them there own clothing.He did that.Well she backed out of dropping the child support after she started working days (funny thing is she has nights this week).He is paying for preschool for the older child.He pays close to 600 dollars in child support a month for them.And she has the nerve to tell him that now that the kids have medical through her that he might be paying more.Since I am pregnant,he likes to go to DR appt's with me.Well she has controled that,and thretened to put the younger one back in daycare if he has appt all the time.She says they are excuses.
He does not work.He was injured in accident years ago,and lives off of the money from that,and he is not getting disability at this time.He does put his all into raising there kids with love,and compasion.He buys them stuff all the time,and has a fridge full of healthy food.Yet he is struggling monthly to make ends meet.
So what are his rights here?She has the chunck of custody,yet my DP has there children all the time.He is writing dates,down and stuff to take to lawyer.I have told him to talk to her yet he is scared of her using his past use of MJ against him when they were together. (he does not do it anymore but still scares him)
Any advice,any thing else he should do?Something he should bring up to his lawyer,or her?
Thank You.