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#31 of 38 Old 12-30-2011, 12:13 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Hi everyone! Baby is born! Still not divorced, but X-h only has to sign a denial of paternity form. 

 

As for getting married right away.. in my state it is 2 weeks after divorce is finalized. But, if we elope to certain counties in NV, there is no waiting period, so we might do that (although 2 weeks is not that much time to wait). 


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CONGRATS!!!  Girl or boy???  Care to share your birth story?


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I just have one question for you.  When you filed for divorce did you and your soon to be ex know that you were pregnant. If he didn't know, how well did it work going though the process and were you able to hide it from everyone until the divorce was final?  I ask because I am pregnant, just got my divorce yesterday, but no one knew I was pregnant.  Now I am afraid that something bad can come back on me after the baby was born.  I am not sure what could happen, any ideas?

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I am so sorry.  :(  I got lucky because my ex couldn't afford his lawyer and so couldn't really stall anymore.  I was married 45 minutes after the divorce was final.  


It did come as a shock to me when the judge asked me if I was pregnant at the hearing, however she then asked both of us if we thought it was possible that the baby was my exes, we both said no, and she declared the child not a chid of the marriage.  

 

I am thinking positive thoughts for you that this goes well and they see through your exes BS.  


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I just have one question for you.  When you filed for divorce did you and your soon to be ex know that you were pregnant. If he didn't know, how well did it work going though the process and were you able to hide it from everyone until the divorce was final?  I ask because I am pregnant, just got my divorce yesterday, but no one knew I was pregnant.  Now I am afraid that something bad can come back on me after the baby was born.  I am not sure what could happen, any ideas?

I don't know what could happen except your ex could file a paternity claim.  As long as it isn't his I don't believe there is anything to worry about.  They might be able to get you on perjury if you directly lied about it.


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I was not pregnant when I filed for divorce. I got pregnant 4 months after with my fiance. 


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So what finally happened with the custody evaluation? 

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sierra bella- you may want to visit us over in the single mom forum also
 


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