Not divorced yet, but pregnant and engaged.. stbx issues - Page 2 - Mothering Forums

Forum Jump: 
 
Thread Tools
Old 12-30-2011, 01:13 PM - Thread Starter
 
SierraBella's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 970
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 1 Post(s)

Hi everyone! Baby is born! Still not divorced, but X-h only has to sign a denial of paternity form. 

 

As for getting married right away.. in my state it is 2 weeks after divorce is finalized. But, if we elope to certain counties in NV, there is no waiting period, so we might do that (although 2 weeks is not that much time to wait). 


 In Love stillheart.gif with my best friend & mama to three beautiful little boys! stork-suprise.gif Expecting #4 Oct. 2014!
SierraBella is offline  
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
Old 12-30-2011, 01:45 PM
 
Mom31's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: America
Posts: 3,604
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)

CONGRATS!!!  Girl or boy???  Care to share your birth story?


mdcblog5.gifsaynovax.giffambedsingle2.gifhomebirth.jpg

 

 

Mom31 is offline  
Old 03-14-2012, 03:45 PM
 
razzybazzy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2012
Posts: 1
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)

I just have one question for you.  When you filed for divorce did you and your soon to be ex know that you were pregnant. If he didn't know, how well did it work going though the process and were you able to hide it from everyone until the divorce was final?  I ask because I am pregnant, just got my divorce yesterday, but no one knew I was pregnant.  Now I am afraid that something bad can come back on me after the baby was born.  I am not sure what could happen, any ideas?

razzybazzy is offline  
Old 09-03-2012, 06:51 PM
 
satorifound's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: Craig, CO
Posts: 68
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)

I am so sorry.  :(  I got lucky because my ex couldn't afford his lawyer and so couldn't really stall anymore.  I was married 45 minutes after the divorce was final.  


It did come as a shock to me when the judge asked me if I was pregnant at the hearing, however she then asked both of us if we thought it was possible that the baby was my exes, we both said no, and she declared the child not a chid of the marriage.  

 

I am thinking positive thoughts for you that this goes well and they see through your exes BS.  


Sacha, mommy to Satori (1994), Landon (1996), Elizabeth (1999) Dillinger (2001) step-mama to Maleena (2003) and Larissa (2006) and expecting the unexpected February 2013!

satorifound is offline  
Old 09-03-2012, 06:52 PM
 
satorifound's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: Craig, CO
Posts: 68
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Quote:
Originally Posted by razzybazzy View Post

I just have one question for you.  When you filed for divorce did you and your soon to be ex know that you were pregnant. If he didn't know, how well did it work going though the process and were you able to hide it from everyone until the divorce was final?  I ask because I am pregnant, just got my divorce yesterday, but no one knew I was pregnant.  Now I am afraid that something bad can come back on me after the baby was born.  I am not sure what could happen, any ideas?

I don't know what could happen except your ex could file a paternity claim.  As long as it isn't his I don't believe there is anything to worry about.  They might be able to get you on perjury if you directly lied about it.


Sacha, mommy to Satori (1994), Landon (1996), Elizabeth (1999) Dillinger (2001) step-mama to Maleena (2003) and Larissa (2006) and expecting the unexpected February 2013!

satorifound is offline  
Old 09-15-2012, 12:31 PM - Thread Starter
 
SierraBella's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 970
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 1 Post(s)

I was not pregnant when I filed for divorce. I got pregnant 4 months after with my fiance. 


 In Love stillheart.gif with my best friend & mama to three beautiful little boys! stork-suprise.gif Expecting #4 Oct. 2014!
SierraBella is offline  
Old 09-16-2012, 11:18 AM
 
Smithie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Posts: 4,422
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 4 Post(s)

So what finally happened with the custody evaluation? 

Smithie is online now  
Old 09-16-2012, 03:55 PM
 
Mom31's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: America
Posts: 3,604
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)

sierra bella- you may want to visit us over in the single mom forum also
 


mdcblog5.gifsaynovax.giffambedsingle2.gifhomebirth.jpg

 

 

Mom31 is offline  
 

Tags
Blended Family Advice A Step By Step Guide To Help Blended And Step Families Become Strong And Succe , Stepping And Blending
User Tag List

Thread Tools


Forum Jump: 

Posting Rules  
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off