This week I am going to have a long awaited meeting with my ex to change dd's schedule. She currently goes two consecutive nights each week. We are talking about changing to an every other weekend schedule, with some time (TBD) on the off week spent with her dad.
This is great because dd has never been happy (or even really neutral) about going to her dad's.
I am just wondering for others who have made this kind of change what kind of concessions (if any) did you make? Did you then change holiday/vacation schedules? Anything you wish you would've done differently?