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#1 of 2 Old 08-10-2013, 08:28 AM - Thread Starter
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So my mother in law hates me. Thanksgiving she crapped my step son and dug her nails into his neck because he ran in her house with shoes on. I was so upset that I left. The minute I left she called the kids mom, a women she says she hates and knows I don't like and she invites her over. My husband didn't know why I went home but he stayed there. These are the things my mother in law does to get back at you. She is crazy. She knows I am uncomfortable with a women my husband had 3 kids with. Anyways I told her how I felt and all hell has broken lose. Now she is buddy buddy with my step kids mom. She invited her to Xmas and easter but not me. Really hurts me. Here she tells me that she hates my husbands ex and thinks 2 of his kids aren't his then turns around and us friends just to get back at me. She turned my sister in law against me and has been feeding my step kids lies about me to the point they don't want to come over. But to top it off my mother in law and my step kids mom are trying to brake up my marriage. My husband is gone for work in another state so those two decide to text him and tell him I am cheating on him with his best friend. My husband knows they are crazy and ignores them but I am hurt. Now she won't let us have the kids and says he can't until he leaves me. Yes we want custody buy he has to wait until his job returns here which is in 2 weeks. There is no reasoning or talking to these women. Both ate high on drugs. I'm so hurt and don't know what to do. Everyone is turning on me even my step kids. I don't know what to do.
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Do you have a court order for custody/visitation? If not, your dh needs to file asap. If he does, and she is not giving him the kids when it's his time, he needs to file to see a judge and address this. Personally, I would not talk to your MIL or the ex, have your dh do most of the communicating to eliminate drama.

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