Shenjall, I have no idea.
You know, our first weddings were thrown together. His ex was preg, they were both 19. I was a little older, but still preg, and it was a rushed, thrown together thing. Both weddings ahould have never taken place, and took place for the wrong reasons.
Is it so wrong to want to celebrate a marriage in your own way, regardless of whether it is the first, second or 10th? It really frustrates me, because they (his family) has really downplayed the whole fact we are marrying. When we got engaged I got a little congratulations, and that was it. No big fuss was made at all. Not that I needed their approval, but still, it hurt my feelings to have it so passed over. I had hopes of talking about the plans with his mom and sister. Now I am pretty sure that is not going to happen.