It's taken a couple weeks for SO to take action, but he brought up the idea of a set schedule to her, and she agreed!!! She agreed exactly to the schedule that SO decided on and is comfy with (Tue and Thur one week, Tue and Fri-Sun the following week etc etc)!!!
I'm so excited, and really hoping she takes this seriously, and sticks with it
This will definately benefit dss, I think! He knows when he'll see her, and seems excited to get every other weekend with her, for sure!
Thanks for all the help and comforting about all of this!! I just wanted to update everyone!
It's casual... But hoenstly, she seems better at keeping the casual promises than she does the ones on paper...
We'll see though, she actually seems good about it, and is getting dss excited about actually spending a whole weekend with her! (not like we never allowed it, she just never wanted it )So, this week is Tuesday and Fri-Sun, so we'll see how it goes, and if she still wants to do the weekend thing after having to be a mom the whole weekend...lol