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Autistic pagan mama with five kiddos on the spectrum, learning through living life.
Originally Posted by mammastar2
My husband's ex takes the "it's not their business" approach to stuff going on in her life, and the "I need details, it's all my business" approach to stuff going on in our lives - lol! Probably pretty common.
I would fall somewhere in the middle. As I said above, we try to tell the kids and then inform her by writing as soon as possible. I do think it's her business if we're moving, having another baby, etc. - it's a major event in her children's lives, and even if she doesn't show us the same courtesy, I know we would rather know about major stuff that goes on for them at her place too. And it's just not fair to make the kids do all the news-carrying. Would you like to be the child telling mom, who's still angry about the divorce, that dad and his new wife are having a baby?
DS: 18 DD: 15 DD: 8 11/10 4/11
DD: 3 8/11