Okay, this is a very long story so I'll try to make it short. I have been married for 8years. My husband has two kids a girl that is 13 and a boy that is 11, we also have a 2yr old together. I have just had two misscarriages this year and am feeling very stressed already. My problem is that the 11yr old has a habit of causing major problems in school which in turn cause problems at home and I just don't feel I can deal with it any more. The B/M is in jail we havn't even heard from her in over a year, so no help. The kids have been at grandma's most of the summer, so I have had a break, but I know when he comes home he will be worse than ever because g-ma lets him do whatever he wants. The kid has gone as far as to ask his dad to choose between him and me (this was when I was 8 mo preg with my daughter) and then last year he told his teacher his dad was beating him (he did grab the back of his neck, but no beating). I just feel like I am done, I have nothing left in my to give. I have seriously thought about just leaving my husband, but it is not fair to him or my daughters. My step daughter is as good to me as a teenager will ever be, she realizes that I have been there for her when her mom wasn't ever. I just need some advise from people that understand because nobody around me does. Please help.
Tiffany wife of 11 yrs to Karl:, DSD Ariel (16) DSS Kaleb (13) DD Jessika (5) twins Drake and Olivia (2) :and our sweet suprise, Lola (11mo):: two angels Sammy(03/06) and Alex (07/06)