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Originally Posted by Zilla
Now let me get this straight, you married a guy who was in massive debt with no interest in getting out, who can't keep a job, and who abuses you son (I'm a little unsure what you were sayng in that part) and he is digging you both in to a hole of debt on one income?
Listen to yourself and leave him! You sound like you are perfectly capapble of handling yourself and your son on your own. Get out before it gets worse (and I have a feeling it will.).
Originally Posted by flapjack
Get out, but take your time. Make an exit plan, get a job, a bank account of your own, etc, etc. Start documenting everything now, and keep it in a safe place: the girls birth certificates.
Do you feel that you have done everything you can to make this marriage work? Or is there something more that will leave you thinking "if only?" Because if so, whilst you're making your exit plan, get your "if only's" out of the way so you can leave guilt free.
Be warned, the next 18 years of your life are probably going to consist of him driving you nuts in exactly the same way his ex drives you nuts now. TBH, though, she possibly has a point? It might be interesting for you to have this conversation with her and see what she says.