I have actually been watching everrrryyything i say in my emails because I AM saving them incase i need them for future use... i doubt he is though. It is not like him to think of something so important and obvious.
Up until today i haven't even mentioned visitation.. and i have stressed MULTIPLE times in those emails, that i am NOT in need of his child support money, and that i have the money and the resources to provide DS with EVERYTHING he needs with or without his help.
I told him that he is allowed to see his son all he wants, but DS will not be spending the night until he is capable of providing Ds with a bed to sleep on, transportation to and from my house for visitation, and until he gets a phone installed so that incase of an emergency he can get ds the fastest medical attention, and inform me of what has happened.
I have also requested that I meet his new GF, and perhaps have a civil talk with her in regaurds to disciplining my son ( she is not to spank or hit him and etc ) if she is going to be helping him care for DS during visits ( as i know Ds's father will leave DS with her while he sleeps or goes to the store )
I have kept my emails VERY formal and to the point. They will benefit ME more than HIM when they are presented in court.