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Originally Posted by MommyMine
dh is saying he is your child's father, he met you on leave while you were a stripper and you slept with him? Or that you had an affair on him while he was deployed and you were a stripper?
Either way you are a stripper?
I think it is best to be honest with kids. One of my cousins was raised as if her mother's husband was her father. After her mother and father died she learned that my uncle was actually her father. It was a huge blow and of course her parents were no longer around to talk to about it.
Originally Posted by Pandora114
Yeah it wont go over well
"No your daddy isn't the one who helped make you. The guy who helped make you is a heroin addict living on Grandville st Vancouver."
Heck I dont even know if the bio-idiot is still living to be honest. Last I heard of him he was living out of the Covenant house on Grandville in Vancouver and is a regular visitor to the safe injection sites ifun ya know what I mean.
So he could be dead, in prison, or has completely forgotten about her in a drug induced stupor for all I know (or care)
Heck by the time DD starts asking questions, he very well might be dead by then. Survival rate for heroin addicts who dont recover is a very very low number indeed
Lisa, lucky mama of Kelly (3/93) , Emma (5/03) , Evan (7/05) , & Jenna (6/09)
Loving my amazing dh, James & forever missing Aaron Ambrose (11/07)
Originally Posted by hawkfeather
okay.. pardon my ignorance here.. but if your partner is fabricating a story.. why not make is a happier one?.. Your actual story is sad.. but the one your dh is sharing isn't all that happy either- sure there is a romantic element in there- but I am a bit unsure of what his intentions are? If he wanted to create the illusion he had made your dd than why does you being a stripper work in there? Do you mind him telling people that? Some people would some wouldn't.