Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Gulf coast of Florida
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The only suggestion I'd have is, during those special occasions where the mom is also present, I'd make sure to stay out of any sort of spotlight, and let it be her celebration. For instance, my kids birthdays are REALLY special to me because *I* gave birth to them on that day, so it's my celebration as well. Having my ex's new wife at a party would be very strange to me (unfortunately or fortunately, we live far apart and never have shared activities).
Also, if/when you have more children, be careful to treat your skids with as much love, tenderness, forgiveness, etc. as your own biokid.
Good luck with your new family!!