We have a very strange family situation. My husband and I were married in 2001, had our son six months later (he will five at the end of this month), then divorced in 2003. I got pregnant with another man while we were apart and had my daughter (she will be a year old at the end of this month). My husband and I got back together when my daughter was 3 weeks old and are now remarried. SO, I am married to my older child's father. My daughter's father sees her about once a week, and his family sees her twice a week or so for a couple of hours. But she lives with us and is with us about 90% of the time. My husband, of course, treats her (and thinks of her) as his own child, and I would say she is much closer to him than she is her biological dad.
My question is, if you were in our situation, would you have another child? I really, really want at least one more child but am worried about how my daughter will feel, being the middle child and having a different father than her older brother and younger brother/sister. What do you think?