I want to thank all who are offering us support in this manner, I do want to clarify the jumping comment, it wasn't intended to sound as though she physically attacked me, she ran up to me while I was working from behind in front of co-workers and started screaming at me, threatening me, which she had already threatened me indirectly via my fellow co- workers and almost getting us fired because at that time we both were temps with this company, I have since been hired by the company, she wasn't. Unfortunatly I have to add some more bad news to this story. Her husband has been watching our children while they are on fall break this week and my fiancee's son was supposed to go shopping with her for his birthday. Upon arriving at her home this evening to pick my boys up, and I told her she could take Brian but she tore into me about not talking to her for 2 days(we ride together) and proceeded to call me names. All of this was done in front of both the boys. I then said fine , lets go home boys and she informed me that my fiancee's son wasn't going anywhere with me. By this time my son was crying hysterically I picked him up to leave, told her that was fine, that my fiancee and I had already discussed what to do in a situation like this and that I was leaving. So with my son on my hip screaming, his son crying, she takes out after me screaming that she has a ton of stuff to tell her son about how I am cheating with this man at our job. Then she proceeded to tell me as I was walking out the door that I needed to find another (F word) to watch my (Fword) kid because they weren't gonna watch him, and to get out of her home & never step foot back in it again. So,I drove home,called my fiancee and he had to leave work early to go retrive his son. When he reached their home, he found his mother down the street at a friends house with his son. His father tried to convince him I was cheating etc, but he finally arrived to our home with his son in tow. We called the police dept to get the facts about her rights etc in case she attempted to come take him from our home while my fiancee was at work since I am going to have to take tomorrow off to watch the boys. Thank goodness I have a great supervisor that is aware of the situation and is flexible and will not fire me over taking off, although I think my fiancee's mother will be jobless. The police commented a restraining order would be to our advantage but assured us she could not take our son from our home. I also had my phone number changed after this confortation. My finacee and I have discussed this situation and he thinks maybe in a week or so he might take his son down for a trial supervised short time limit visitation but the catch is that if one word about me, my son, cheating or any negative comment, he would stand up tell his son it was time to go, not argue with them, and leave. This whole situation should have never occurred in front of our children , it has been stressful on all of us. We are all trying very hard to make this relationship work, I even had my fiancee call this woman I work with and ask her anything he liked about me supposedly cheating. I can assure all of you if I have intentions of cheating or the desire to it would not be at my job where his mother is working 25 feet of me at all times. Thank you all again for your wonderful comments and suggestions, we really need outside non biased advice.