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Shelley, mom to dd 5/19/01, ds 9/06/02, and ds 4/01/07. Lost babe 4/09
I am so happy to find this thread! My DS is almost 4 and I am pregnant with baby #2 right now. DS sees his dad 2-3 days a week and I am so worried that when the new baby comes DS is going to think we love the baby more because the baby gets to stay with us all the time. I've cried over this several times.
I'm so happy to hear that others have similar arrangements and it works out ok. It makes me feel a lot better.
With my dd, I have always talked about how lucky she is to have so many people in her life who love her. She likes going to her dad's house because it is something special...just for her...that her sibs don't get to do. I have encouraged this way of thinking...making it a gain instead of a a loss for her.