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When I was growing up, my brother and sister and I shared the same last name, while my mother (who had remarried) and my half-sister (who was the daughter of her new husband) had a different last name.
It was never a big deal. What is bothering you about it exactly? Don't kids normally have the same surname as their actual dad? And yes, I can see why your partner wouldn't want the baby to have your ex's last name.
Megan Davidson, Labor & Postpartum Doula, Breastfeeding Counselor, Anthropologist, Mom to August (9) and Clay (4), Partner to Shawn.
so I have two boys with my last name from my previous marriage. I just recently found out I'm pregnant with my partner's baby. We are not married, but pretty much live together. We don't have any intentions on marrying at the current time, but my concern is this.....
My partner Tom does not want this new baby to have my "ex's last name" as he puts it. He wants the baby to have his last name, but then me and my own child and it's brothers would be different.
We just discussed this slightly today, but no resolution was agreed upon yet.
|My partner Tom does not want this new baby to have my "ex's last name" as he puts it. He wants the baby to have his last name, but then me and my own child and it's brothers would be different.|
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