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Originally Posted by boobybunny View Post
our youngest is now of an age that he will be in a bed other than ours.
His ten year old brother does not want to share with a three year old
Yeah, I can see how that would be an unpleasant combination for room sharing between a 10 yr old and a 3 yr old.
That makes sense.

Originally Posted by boobybunny View Post
and our daughter would be be happy to share.. but my former spouse declared that "unsafe."
That is so annoying that he would think it's unsafe. :

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(The kids see their bio father for all of 30 overnights a year....30/365)
That is not much at all!

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YES! to go from my duplex, where we would live mortgage or rent free to my husband's home (3/3) home was an added expense of 1500 a month.
(210,000.00 home)
to a 4/3 we are looking at a MINIMUM of a 400K home,
and a 2200 mortgage.
So no it is not just as simple as a hundred bucks a month.
Yes, houses are much different that apartments.
Houses cost way too much these days, IMO.
It's insane how much they cost.
It's so not fair.
We haven't been able to buy a house because of how expensive they are.
We live in a dilapidated mobile home that is older than me!
We're going to try to apply for a home through Habitat For Humanity, but they're not even accepting applications until this fall.

Originally Posted by boobybunny View Post
My former spouse threw a huge arse fit about our children co sleeping with my new spouse and I.
(as I would have as well if it were reversed)
Your ex sounds difficult.
I can see how it's different, though, cosleeping with children that are not biologically from one parent.
I know I wouldn't want to cosleep with my stepson!

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