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but it IS illegal to drink , come pick up the kids and drive while under the influence....he shows up after drinking....can I stop him from taking the boys?
I'm tired of this 12 years i have been dealing with his stupid a$$ , i'm tired....we shouldn't have to live this way, no one should
its terrible no one can protect these kids better.....I suppose I go into debt over this , then so be it....my ds's lives are far more important to me than any amount of money.
so...my father is technically bound to report this....he thinks I should warn ex....and tell him both ds's therapist and my father are supposed to report.
My dad says ex can get into alot of trouble for what he's doing....its emotionally and physically abuvsive to make the boys afraid of him by random acts of violence towards them....even if ex thinks their playing the boys do not.
so.....I must speak with him....and I have a call into my sons worker....and well....my father says calling the police is jumping the gun...but if it happens again...i should.
oh...and if i don't...I can be an unwilling accessory.
my son will have his own cell phone by this weekend to use for any emergencies.
i AM documenting things.
I did take a picture.
The therapist called and reported.
now , I have to find a way to get them from having to go there tomorrow.....I am thinking if i just say they don't want to come.....that they're afraid....
my ds begsme never to say anything to his dad , fearing that he'll do what he always does...yells at him for telling me stuff.
I just want to take my ds's in my arms and never have to allow them to live through this kind of torture....and it is torture.
|no one listened to me...no one came to my aid....everyone acted as if nothing was happening.....|
you're so right.....I can't say why I am afraid to go back to court....they've been hurt so much.....and sticking my head in the sand is not helping them.....
I know I have not stood up for them in every instance...and I feel awful about it....I have to start the new year new...and let them know that they can count on me, period.
help me mamas....because believe it or not...this man still scares me.....alot.