Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: pacific northwest
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dp and i have been together 2 years...he and dd have bonded and love eachother so much. her dad is not around.
last week dp was gone on work, dd and i had a lovely week, she was 98% co operative and kind.
dp comes home and our dynamic shifts and she acts resentful of me...I have to help enforce boundaries w/her and dp b cause she wants his attention so bad she gets pushy and invades his space.
dp took her out yesterday and they had a wonderful time then when they came home she was uncooperative and rude.
How do we get the harmony when it is all three of us?
I dont understand this, its hard being in this situation to see whats going on, I want to get in dd's head and understand whats going on.
p.s dd wishes her bio dad was around I know she has saddness about this and it is a part of whats going on.