Join Date: Dec 2001
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I'm bracing myself, also. This is an "oops" baby, though we have always intended to have 3 (it looks like #3 is coming a year earlier than we had planned). But a lot of people out there seem to have "ideas" about how many babies people should have (generally no more than 2), when/why they should have them, whether they can afford them, etc.
We're still in shock, so we're not going to tell anyone who is guaranteed to give us a big "congratulations!" back.
My mil has made snippy comments in the past about our wanting 3 kids (because *she* never wanted 3, like I give a darn, y'know?)... I imagine she won't be finding out till, oh, Thanksgiving.