I'm not sure which is worse really, moving while pregnant or moving with a little one.
My good friend is 4 months pregnant and had ONE MONTH NOTICE (from DH's job) to move all of her and her DH's stuff into storage, garage sales, etc. because they are moving to INDONESIA for his job.
She had to figure out how to send the cats there, basically get rid of all her stuff, give away her pet bunnies, and has to change doctors/hospital/etc. in the middle of the pregnancy. she can only take 2 suitcases.
Because Jakarta has issues with blood safety, she will have to have her baby in Singapore. This means a 1 hr. flight and overnight stay for each prenatal appt, and her staying in singapore (without DH) for the last 6 weeks of her pregnancy! It really SUCKS. Stepmom is coming to stay with her during that time, but I just can't imagine that situation. Its their first baby, and she feels so overwhelmed with everything. That would be like me leaving NOW for 6 weeks without DH. I can't imagine that as we are spending so much bonding time right now at birth class, hypnobirthing class, and at home getting ready for the little one.
I think in her case, moving after the baby makes more sense. She's a trooper though, and I know it will all work out.
mama to Milena Anjali (4/26/06) and Vincent Asher (4/13/09) ~ married to the love of my life since 2002.