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#1 of 18 Old 10-09-2005, 01:24 PM - Thread Starter
 
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i just wanted to let all of you know that we lost the baby this week...i'm very, very sad. i tell myself that it's for the best in the end...
dh and i have chosen to wait now to conceive again, probably another year or more.
i wish you all the best with your pregnancies and i'll check in here periodically to see how all of you progress.

In love with Dh since 1998. We created Ds (7.1.03), Dd (10.16.06) and Dd (3.16.09).
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#2 of 18 Old 10-09-2005, 02:15 PM
 
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope things work out well for you.
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Oh I am so sorry. I am sending you love and peace for your healing time. I will miss you here.

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I am sorry about your loss.

Mama to 9 so far:Mother of Joey (20), Dominick (13), Abigail (11), Angelo (8), Mylee (6), Delainey (3), Colton (2) and Baby 8 and Baby 9 coming sometime in July 2013.   If evolution were true, mothers would have three arms!

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see next post: computer did it twice!
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Just remember:

You didn't "lose" anything. I had this happen once, and I have referred to it in the years hence as a "short term" pregnancy. And I did not "mis-carry" anything. I did everything fine, that particular soul just wasn't ready yet. Even to my docs and midwife I use this terminology.

I look at the time period afterwards as the "cleaning out and prepping the nest" period, in which I prepare my body and heart for a healthy pregnancy in the future. I have had two healthy happy "long term" pregnancies since then.

Blessings and love,
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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I am so sorry mama. Please take good care of yourself. Blessings to you and your family. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers. Highly sticky vibes for when you guys are ready again. Much love,

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Oh my goodness, I'm so very sorry!! Take care of yourself...you'll be in my thoughts

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I am sorry for your loss and I hope you have good fast luck when you all decide to
ttc again.
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much love to you and your family
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We'll miss you and look forward to your lurking around. We all wish you the best for the next year!
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I am so very sorry mama. It's been such a sad week for losses. Hugs, and prayers for you.

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I'm so sorry. Prayers and thoughts for you and your family.

~~Kristina~~ Mama to DS(10/30/01), DD1(VBAC 3/28/04) and DD2(HBAC 5/21/06)
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I'm so sorry hon.
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esther O am so sorry for your loss. take good care of yourself - glad you will check in.
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I am very sorry.
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