dh and i have chosen to wait now to conceive again, probably another year or more.
i wish you all the best with your pregnancies and i'll check in here periodically to see how all of you progress.
Mama to 9 so far:Mother of Joey (20), Dominick (13), Abigail (11), Angelo (8), Mylee (6), Delainey (3), Colton (2) and Baby 8 and Baby 9 coming sometime in July 2013. If evolution were true, mothers would have three arms!
You didn't "lose" anything. I had this happen once, and I have referred to it in the years hence as a "short term" pregnancy. And I did not "mis-carry" anything. I did everything fine, that particular soul just wasn't ready yet. Even to my docs and midwife I use this terminology.
I look at the time period afterwards as the "cleaning out and prepping the nest" period, in which I prepare my body and heart for a healthy pregnancy in the future. I have had two healthy happy "long term" pregnancies since then.
Blessings and love,
"A computer once beat me at chess, but it was no match for me at kick boxing." ~ Emo Philips
Me, DH, DS1, DS2, November 2012 , July 2013 , March 2014
Waiting on my SunshineBaby