I'm so sorry mama
We've just lost our kitty of 6yrs. and we are all still very sad about it. Rasta was an awesome cat! We got him when he was just 6wks old and he's moved with us all over the place and never once ran away. He was so smart about cars (we've lived in lots of busy places), never used a litter box...he would just scratch on the door when he wanted to go out, he's always gotten along with our dog and other animals, but he's wicked when it comes to animals he doesnt know. Once when he was about 8 mos. old, he would chase this great big German Shepard out of our yard because he was so protective of our/his place
Well, 3 weeks ago today was the last time we saw him
We've looked everywhere, posted flyers, called animal control several times...
And I totally hear ya about having those awful unresolved feelings. I think that's what makes it so hard. If i knew he got killed somehow, i could grieve and move on, or if he found another family (which i SERIOUSLY doubt cause he hated strangers and other kids) but i could get over it knowing at least that he was taken care of. But not know what happened is awful. I still drive around the neighborhood everytime i leave to look for him. Dh and i will hear a cat meow and run outside to see if its him. I was thinking just yesterday i wonder how long we will keep looking before giving up. I'm crying just thinking about it
Sorry i'm not trying to hijack your thread or anything, but just wanted to say i know how you feel and i'm so sorry youre having to go through this. Its so tough to loose a pet, they are such a part of our family.
Maybe if you remember where the lady lived you could drive over there. Or if you have her name try doing a people search online to find a new number.
mama...please let us know if you find him.