Maybe this is the right thread, or maybe it's not. Feel free to move it.
H and I know that we want to have one more child. The timing of when we're going to have another one is still up in the air. We haven't really been trying - a lot going on right now - so we'll probably wait until late Spring/early Summer. But also, lately, I look at my DS and wonder how he would be with another little person in our world. He's been the only one for 3 years now, the center of attention, so will he be okay with this? Will I have enough time and energy for both? Will I be able to love the 2nd as much as I do my DS?
I'm sure all of the questions went through your mind at one point before having your 2nd or 3rd or 4th. How did you decide?