DD and I have fairly frequent playdates (about once or twice a week) with a friend of mine. We're former coworkers who live in the same area. We usually go out and sometimes spend time at the other persons home. It's fun because our girls get along really well and we get along well too. About a month ago she asked if DD and I would be interested in going to Sesame Place with her and her DD for her churches annual trip. The cost of the tickets were low and I thought it would be fun. She went last year and thought we would all have fun together. She calls me last week to tell me the date of the trip and the cost. We even talked about who would bring what. When we have outings we usually bring enough of one thing so we're both not overloaded with stuff.
I texted her over the weekend and asked her when we needed to pay and asked her if she was interested in the pass that allows you to not have to wait on line for rides. She wrote back, "we won't have to wait on line. it's a church! and the lines go fast anyway and they ask people to bring food and we all share each others food" Then she sends another text saying, "Well, we're driving and our car is already packed but if you want to go I can check and see if there are any vans left for you two to ride." I wrote back, "thanks but we're going to pass."
I'm just annoyed. Why bother asking us to go and then only informing me that she would be driving after the fact. Then last week when we were on one of our weekly outings, I asked her the name of the dentist she goes to because DH and I want to take DD. Her response, "we go to a really good PRIVATE dentist our pediatrician recommended." She tends to be extremely B*tchy when she has PMS but I found this Sesame Street thing annoying. I'm a pretty sensitive person and wondered if I am being too sensitive about this.