I have five year old and two year old daycare girls. She has a five year old and two year old daughters.
Mom has lots of tattoos, spikey colorful hair, and piercings.
She said to me this morning that "You never let my kids play with your kids because you judge my kids by the way I look".
"Um.. no... I judge your kids because they hit, scream, cuss like sailors and grab whatever they want right out of someone else's hands." (I didn't actually say this though) The five year old shoved a toddler off a slide because "He wasn't going fast enough".
Plus, this is MY JOB. I am not running a free playroom for the neighbor kids. But, really, if her kids weren't obnoxious, I'd probably not mind having them in occasionally.
All I said was "SERIOUSLY????" I didn't go beyond that because I was so mad that she would even consider something like that. I would have said something really awful. But, I want to confront her on this issue today. I don't want her running around the neighborhood saying I judge her kids by how mom looks.