I would love to know!
y'all go first cause I am actually unsure...
Begin with the end in mind.
Blessed partner to a great guy, and mama to 4 amazing kids. Unfortunate target of an irrationally angry IRL stalker.
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. ~ Buddha
I think mine would be some sort of combination of these two, with something about respect and compassion mixed in. :)
To be fair I hope we will be friends when they are grown ups and I am trying to help them grow into awesome grown ups. But being the mom means doing unpopular things.
My advice may not be appropriate for you. That's ok. You are just fine how you are and I am the right kind of me.