I just dont know what to think or do about this, except I know that it bugs me. So would you mind giving me your thoughts on the matter?
Dd #1 birthday is Jan. 1 and my in-laws never come up (800 miles) because its winter time though our winters have been mild lately. They live in central California we live in Idaho.
Dd #2 birthday is in May and they are planning on coming up then, it will be her first birthday.
I am wondering what dd#1 is going to think, I mean grandparents come up for her sister and but not hers? I know that life is not fair nor will it ever be.
We dont make a big deal out of birthdays, we just do something really small and just family. I am afraid they will want to make a big deal out of it but being its my house I WILL have to put my foot down but how, nicely?
It wont mean much to dd#2 them being here but if they would have come for dd#1 she would remember and it could be special for her.
They almost always come up in July, but now I think they want to start coming up in May instead, or maybe both.
I should also say that they and I dont have alot in common as far as our thoughts, actually they only thing we have in common is my husband and kids.
So am I making a mountian out of a mole hill, or is there cause for concern?
Thanks for reading this rambling post and for your thoughts!
Dd #1 birthday is Jan. 1 and my in-laws never come up (800 miles) because its winter time though our winters have been mild lately. They live in central California we live in Idaho.
Dd #2 birthday is in May and they are planning on coming up then, it will be her first birthday.
I am wondering what dd#1 is going to think, I mean grandparents come up for her sister and but not hers? I know that life is not fair nor will it ever be.
We dont make a big deal out of birthdays, we just do something really small and just family. I am afraid they will want to make a big deal out of it but being its my house I WILL have to put my foot down but how, nicely?
It wont mean much to dd#2 them being here but if they would have come for dd#1 she would remember and it could be special for her.
They almost always come up in July, but now I think they want to start coming up in May instead, or maybe both.
I should also say that they and I dont have alot in common as far as our thoughts, actually they only thing we have in common is my husband and kids.
So am I making a mountian out of a mole hill, or is there cause for concern?
Thanks for reading this rambling post and for your thoughts!