Let me begin at the beginning...
About 6 months ago MIL, who is 70, decides she is going to move to Texas to NANNY for a newborn baby (she is the daughter of a doctor MIL used to work for). She asks us to move into her house and after some debate Mark and I agree it would be a good thing. Bigger house, less rent, Mark's family is right there.
Anyway, so we start talking about moving and what things she is taking, etc. Turns out she doesn't want to take hardly any of her furniture...um...where will we put our furniture? So she says she'll be taking her living room furniture, and a bed. Ok, we have a two bedroom hosue to move. She says put it in storage. Well that defeats the whole purpose of moving in to save money, now doesn't it?
She wants me to come over every weekend and some week nights to help her get organized. The people she is going to nanny for are paying for professional movers who will move everything for her she doesn't have to lift a finger! So I tell her that WE have to start packing our things, so I need the weekends to do homework and to pack. She gets all pissy of course. Then on Saturday Mark tells her that he will go to the family reunion, but doesn't. Kailey and I are off with friends at soccer games, etc. So we don't go (BTW, I NEVER go, cause it is really painful to be around idiots).
My cell phone battery ahs been dead for awhile and this morning I get off my lazy butt and charge it. She left a voice message Saturday night saying "don't worry about moving in, I found someone else."
WTF? I have not given any indication that we weren't moving in. She said I was avoiding her, again, WTF? I have homework, I have things to do, I can't be up her butt 24/7. I am sick of this woman.
Then she tells Mark "she doesn't have a relationship with Kailey." Hello, we are over there every weekend! She means is that she doesn't get much alone time with her. But she DOES. She takes her for the day, shopping, McDonald's, etc. Not a lot because Kailey doesn't want to go. I'm not going to force her.
UGh! Anyway, to pissed to write.
Besides she has NO respect for our parenting and why would I let someone who doesn't respect us or our wishes take our child overnight?
About 6 months ago MIL, who is 70, decides she is going to move to Texas to NANNY for a newborn baby (she is the daughter of a doctor MIL used to work for). She asks us to move into her house and after some debate Mark and I agree it would be a good thing. Bigger house, less rent, Mark's family is right there.
Anyway, so we start talking about moving and what things she is taking, etc. Turns out she doesn't want to take hardly any of her furniture...um...where will we put our furniture? So she says she'll be taking her living room furniture, and a bed. Ok, we have a two bedroom hosue to move. She says put it in storage. Well that defeats the whole purpose of moving in to save money, now doesn't it?
She wants me to come over every weekend and some week nights to help her get organized. The people she is going to nanny for are paying for professional movers who will move everything for her she doesn't have to lift a finger! So I tell her that WE have to start packing our things, so I need the weekends to do homework and to pack. She gets all pissy of course. Then on Saturday Mark tells her that he will go to the family reunion, but doesn't. Kailey and I are off with friends at soccer games, etc. So we don't go (BTW, I NEVER go, cause it is really painful to be around idiots).
My cell phone battery ahs been dead for awhile and this morning I get off my lazy butt and charge it. She left a voice message Saturday night saying "don't worry about moving in, I found someone else."
WTF? I have not given any indication that we weren't moving in. She said I was avoiding her, again, WTF? I have homework, I have things to do, I can't be up her butt 24/7. I am sick of this woman.
Then she tells Mark "she doesn't have a relationship with Kailey." Hello, we are over there every weekend! She means is that she doesn't get much alone time with her. But she DOES. She takes her for the day, shopping, McDonald's, etc. Not a lot because Kailey doesn't want to go. I'm not going to force her.
UGh! Anyway, to pissed to write.
Besides she has NO respect for our parenting and why would I let someone who doesn't respect us or our wishes take our child overnight?