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#1 of 6 Old 07-06-2005, 06:47 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Um, she wouldn't.

What prompted the question?
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I would suppose it would be because she felt it was her 'duty', or to her sex was a 'chore' to be fulfilled, or that simply her wants do not matter to her.

Honestly, got me beat with a stick.

But, the women who do feel that they, I'd think they'd have what they felt were good reasons... Not my place to say what's 'right' or 'wrong' in another's relationship. But it just wouldn't work on a whole for me...
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Um, she wouldn't.

What prompted the question?
See the other thread in this forum.
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For me it is because I promised to take care of my husband, and part of that is fufilling his sexual needs. OTOH, he cares for me also and if I REALLY don't want to have sex, we don't. But if he does, I will...because it is such a little thing and it makes him happy, and keeps him satisfied. I don't have to be "in the mood" and he doesn't expect the earth to shake.

Now if I want it, we make more of an event...yk??

I guess no woman should be obligated, I am free to say no at any time, I have in the past and I will again, but if he wants it, I give it 99% of the time. Why shouldn't I??

I have a feeling I'm not clear about how I wanted to say that....I'll try again if it's not understood. I don't feel "obligated" (no one should) but I feel "led" to give oblige him. It's just what I do for my husband to meet his needs. He meets my need sin other ways.
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Why would a man be obligated to keep a wife who won't have sex with him as his only sexual partner? Men (or women for that matter) can only go so long unwillingly...
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