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Originally Posted by JenMidwife
Oh, I really want to order one, but I have this feeling that I should wait until after the birth to see how it all pans out.
Does that sound paranoid or silly?
Originally Posted by pease
Nope, I feel the exact same way. I won't be ordering any homebirth or VBAC t shirts until after it's all over. It would be heartbreaking to have them waiting for me at home if I end up having another surgery.
And I'm cheap, too.
Originally Posted by SummerTwilight
I feel the same way too Jen. Every time I tell someone I am having a homebirth I think "At least I hope so". I would be devastated if I couldn't for some reason but you never know if the baby is gonna come at 36 weeks or really late or what-have-you. I just don't know what to expect from my body having never done this before...but that is something I have to work on anyways, trusting my body. I have a little bit of fear that since I didn't get pregnant naturally I may be expecting to much to think I can birth naturally. I know on a logical level this doesn't make sense and I need to get over it. I am trying to think only positive.