So my friends and family want to throw me a baby shower.
Almost everyone on my side of the family has a shower for all the babies anyway so that isnt so out of the ordinary even though it was just 3 years ago that we had one when I was pg with J.
We really dont need much of anything unless he turns out to be a she. But there are a few big things i want but dont really need, just personal splurging
Maybe a few winter clothes depending on his size.
But people ( esp people who didnt know us when we had DS1) are asking what to get us and when is the shower, etc so I guess they want to know! ( stocks, bonds...
Anyway... so my mom decided to have an "after the baby is here" party. My BF and MIL are pitching in too.
That's fine with me- i just dont want him passed around a lot. ya know...
But i was trying to think of ideas to make it more fun than just looking at my sleeping newborn.
I told them I would help ( financially too) since i just want to have a fun get together with my friends and family.
My BF is doing some sort of games.
Any ideas on something different?
i have heard of diaper showers, book showers, etc... I thought that one of those might not be a bad idea. But i dont want people to feel obligated to buy something.
I considered a Christian blessingway, but my mom decided that after the baby comes is better.
I am kinda stumped..
PS: If you think having any sort of celebration is dumb since this is baby #2, please dont share that, i dont htink my hormones could handle criticism right now!