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Old 11-16-2006, 03:23 AM
 
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I'm sorry mama, you and your family are in my prayers
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Old 11-16-2006, 06:29 AM
 
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I am so very sorry for your loss.
Thank you for sharing your story, it touched me deeply.

Peace and love be with you.
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I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
I send all my warmest thoughts to you and your family. Your story is heartbreaking :cry I am so happy to hear that you survived so your daughter and husband are not left alone.


Lots of thoughts and hugs coming to you and your family, and a candle for Trace

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My heart aches for you. Your angel is always with you, whispering to you that he loves you and thanking you for carrying him in your body.
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I hope that sharing here helps to ease your pain. Over time.

Wishing you peace. Someday. Trace Oak
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I am so sorry. I am thinking and praying for you and your family.
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Thank you for sharing your precious Trace Oak with us. I will light a candle today in his honor. Much love to you mama you and your family will be in my thoughts as you journey through your grief.

If you find you need more support, the Pregnancy and Infant Loss forum is a gentle, loveing place to share your grief and find support and information.
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I will also be lighting a candle for dear little Trace today.

Thank you for sharing your story with us, mama. My heart breaks at everything you've been through. I hope that writing out his birth story brings you some healing and peace. Much love
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I am so sorry for your family.
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You are in my heart. I'm so sorry.

chicken3.gifbelly.gifwow...i'm gonna have another one!!!
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Oh gosh, I really don't know what to say. I am so so sorry about your little boy. And I am so sorry for everything you went through. You are an incredibly strong woman. You are in my thoughts and please, take comfort in your wonderful husband and your beautiful daughter.
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I am so sorry for your loss! My heart aches for you! Thank you for sharing your story.
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I am so sorry mama I think it's wonderful you and your family got to take him out the front door of the hospital though. you are such a stong woman. (I know that doesn't mean much right now but you are)I will be thinking of you and your family during this time. please be gentle with yourself.

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My heart cant find words to type .. Im sending you love and peace. Ive been crying my eyes out over your story.
live. thats all you can do...
peace mama
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My heart aches for your family's loss. You are in our thoughts.

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I can't read without responding. I am so sorry for your terrible ordeal and the heartbreaking loss of Trace Oak. You did nothing wrong. Please do not blame yourself. My prayers are with you all.

Mother is the word for God on the hearts and lips of all little children--William Makepeace Thackeray
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Jaya,

Mom of 5 boys- 13, 10, 8, 2 : and newbie Aug. 24th, '09 . babywearing advocate . Cook, baker, homemaker, wife to a man with another woman's kidney (live altruistic, unknown donor).
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I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers and love sent to you, your husband, and your daughter.
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I'm so sorry mama. Words escape me, but I couldn't read and not post concern for you and your family.
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Dearest Jaya,
My heart is broken for you & your family to endure such an awful tragedy. I know no words could ever, EVER communicate healing and comfort to you right now. I can send you my love, prayers & love filled thoughts.

TRACE OAK
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You and your family are in my thoughts.

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I am so terribly sorry.
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Thank you for sharing your story. I think of you everyday. Peace and Love.
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I'm so sorry for your losses.

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I'm so incredibly sorry for you loss. I don't know what to say. Thank you for sharing with us.
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i am so so sorry... (words seem so useless right now)

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I am so sorry.
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I hope that you all remain strong and find peace in all of this. i'm so sorry for your loss....

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