An update for you all...
Let's see, birth was pretty fast labor-wise, we had a severe shoulder dystocia, meconium aspiration, lost the heartbeat for half a minute or so, he didn't try to breathe on his own for nearly 45 min. Asa Gilbert was 11lb 8oz several hours later, after 5-6 meconium diapers, a helicopter ride, and being stabilized in NICU. (actually he was stable when he got there, and started seizing in the first 20 minutes after arrival.) I had a 1st degree skin-only tear, but a partially ruptured symphysis and a dislocated tailbone. I did lose about a liter of blood, so ended up having 2 transfusions.
Asa went from 20+ hours straight of screaming and seizing, to nonresponsive to anything, but after a week was nursing and released. We've been seeing doctors since, I swear, every one in the state.
Anyways, now have a month-old on anticonvulsants just to be safe, physical therapy twice a day, weekly ped. visits, and a very rowdy 2 year old.