Well, I have for the first time ever, put my child upstairs to nap alone. She has been fussing and yelling for 24 minutes, even though she is extremly tired. She is in a playpen(we don't own a crib)in my other kids' room with nice lullabies playing. I had her on my back for a nap as usual, and she was freaking out, arching and crying and so not happy. I was reaching the frusteration level of total overload so I had to take her out. She has to learn to nap in a bed/playpen, I just can't take this anymore. I feel aweful but I just don't know what else to do. I nursed her, tucked her in and left and haven't been back....I know if I go to see her I will take her out. I feel so bad.