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#1 of 5 Old 07-07-2011, 05:37 PM - Thread Starter
 
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So my 11 month old has been going to bed fairly early, and too early for me to join him. He wakes up constantly looking for me until I finally go to bed. I have been thinking about just keeping him up until I go to bed, but I have always heard that between 6 and 7pm is the healthiest bedtime for kids...I was wondering what other people's experiences are. This could be the solution to our problem, but before I start keeping him up later I don't want to mess up his sleep cycles,

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I encourage you to avoid manipulating his bedtime either way. Yes, I have heard the very popular thought that an early bedtime is 'best', but it completely depends on your child's very individual needs. My DD, for example, is a night owl. Always has been, even in utero. She's gone through phases where she'd fall asleep in that conventional early window; but more times than not, she needed to be up longer. It just really depends, and they'll sleep according to their body's own fluctuating needs. I think it is wise to not screw with that.

 

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If he is going to bed too early for you to join him, would it disturb him-- or help him---- to put him in a wrap or sling just before or after he falls asleep for the night?


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I think I will try to keep him in the Ergo and as long as he's nursing he would stay asleep.
 

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I encourage you to avoid manipulating his bedtime either way. Yes, I have heard the very popular thought that an early bedtime is 'best', but it completely depends on your child's very individual needs. My DD, for example, is a night owl. Always has been, even in utero. She's gone through phases where she'd fall asleep in that conventional early window; but more times than not, she needed to be up longer. It just really depends, and they'll sleep according to their body's own fluctuating needs. I think it is wise to not screw with that.

 

With that said.

 

If he is going to bed too early for you to join him, would it disturb him-- or help him---- to put him in a wrap or sling just before or after he falls asleep for the night?



 

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Our son is 20 months and goes to bed when we do (we co-sleep). He averages 13 hours of sleep within a 24 hour period. So even if we go to bed late, he'll either sleep later in the morning or have a longer nap in the afternoon.

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My kids never went to bed between 6 & 7 unless we were getting rid of naps & they happened to fall asleep then.

 

They usually went to bed at 8, the odd time 7 but usually 8.    If they woke up I'd rock them back to sleep in the living room & put them back to bed.  I would always nurse them again before I went to bed around 11-12.

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