I have an 8 year old son whom we're still cosleeping with. With the new baby, I started sleeping with her in her room because 1-our bed is not big enough 2- I don't trust that a family bed would be safe since my son is a wild sleeper. But more troubling issue is that baby just started a new habit, she feels and wakes up if i leave the room. It takes her forever to go into a deep sleep anyway. This means that I have to go to bed when she does. I can't spend enough time with my son, can't spend any time with my husband, forget about doing any other work waiting for me. I went back to work approximately 1 month ago. I think this may have triggered this. She's 5 months old and still nurses every 1.5-2 hours (only @ night, during the day she can go 3-3.5 hrs). Only if I could put her to sleep and join her again later. My husband was never OK w/cosleeping (and still sleeps with our son) and getting upset that I'm doung it all over again. Help!! Any advice is highly appreciated.