When do you think it's safe for an older kid to come into the family bed with baby? She mostly sleeps in her own room now but still wants to come in some nights but we say no. She has a "camp bed" (mattress on the floor) in our room but I'm just wondering when/if it will be safe for both of them in our bed?
My younger two had an older sibling sleeping in the same bed from birth. I just made sure I was sleeping between them. It's a bit tricky with nursing when I need to switch sides. I can only fall asleep nursing on one side