I am in the process of gentling weaning my 16 month old ds. I am pregnant and I just need to stop nursing. Over the past few months, the number of times he nurses has decreased. I am just concerned about how I am going to get him to sleep for his naps without nursing. Do you any of you have any suggestions? We have ideas from Pantley's book for the past six months and my son can now fall asleep at bedtime without nursing. HE also takes a good nap everyday. For some reason he will only fall asleep for his nap if my nipple is in his mouth.