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Originally Posted by karin95
If given a choice, I would probably agree with you.
Unfortunately, this little munchkin is leaving us within a month and going to her bio-parent who will definitely parent in a mainstream manner. He *will* let her CIO, so I'd rather let her fuss a little and fall back to sleep and not expect someone to help her everytime than be used to us helping her and then go live with her parent and be totally abandoned.
I can accept fully that this could be CIO. Being a foster parent means toeing a lot of lines and we try and be as respectful of the babies as much as possible, in addition to preparing them to leave us.
Once we adopt, we will probably be cosleeping, breastfeeding and not-CIO. I can't wait for that...
Originally Posted by BelovedK
I'm truly sorry that you have to deal with that heartache. IMO, it's better for the babe to have at least an experience of trust...even for a little while. The CIO is abandonment, unfortunately this babe will have to face it. Better to have a good experience registered.
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